I truly love a girl and have told her my feeling last year, but she said she just wanna be friends. Since then we are still friends and I recall sometimes I would approach and talk to her, make her birthday card,.. But it worsens now.. I don't dare to talk to her at all and I seem to be cold in front of her. Whenever she passes by, I do not greet her or smile at her. And there is another boy who also likes her and he keeps trying to talk to her smiling. I think he has been keeping in touch with her using phone. This morning, he saw her and he offered to lend her DVDs, which she responded. I am really sad because I think and believe I have no more hopes. Moreover, her friends and she were talking about him (I think!! They were whispering and I think I heard his name) and she kind of showed her phone. I think it's like he wants them to do something. I don't know..
But, she seems shy in front of me, and … Back then I thought I have won her heart some time ago, but maybe I am wrong.
Please, if you were me, would you give up now and forget her at all? Is it too late for me to change? But I think I am the better person for her. He is more immature and is like a child, while I have got a reputation in my campus and hold many positions. Next year I will be nominated as the head of the Students Council.
2007-05-09 23:31:43 · 13 answers · asked by En Route 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cant be U ...but i can be HER
listen, girls like guyz to follow them and keep on trying...
you shouldnt give up and let the other guy win... if u really love her , go for it... even if she said friends, ok friends why not, everybody knows that friendship leads to .......
anyways.. my advice to u is, keep on trying and try to be close to her, then when u feel like she is responding, ask her out... but if she isnt, as her out az a friends only, like go to the movies etc...
remember, dont let the other immature guy wins, ur better than him and as u said you have a big chance to be the head of the students council, thats one point for ya
GOOOD LUCK
2007-05-09 23:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are way to good for this girl and you have great things that will happen to you....ride the sh*t out with this girl and let her go and move on. I'm sure there are some really nice girls on campus that have there eye on you but you haven't notice them yet.
Also its a bit like this..let the bird go and if it really loved you in the first place it will come back.
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2007-05-09 23:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by O2Phone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but it seems like she sees you as a friend so you had better give up. The fact that she chooses another person does not mean that you are not better. Maybe she is looking for different features for a boyfriend, love and attraction do not depend on logical assessments.
2007-05-09 23:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by helianthez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you change? It sounded like you had a wonderful personality before, and now you changed? What happened in your life to make you change.
It is obvious to me, that she does not like the "new you" and how you have changed for the worse, and that is why she is looking for someone better.
If you really want her back, take a good look at yourself in the mirror and if you do not like what you see, then make that change before it is to late.
If you have issues, then I suggest you talk to someone, get them resolved, so you can better understand yourself and get a better understanding as to why you changed.
If she is worth changing for like I think she is from your statement, then get all the help you can to make yourself a better person.
Sorry, but I do not believe that she thinks you have a good reputation for her, maby for everyone on campus, but not for her!
2007-05-09 23:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's been honest with you and requested a friendship, not a romance, so respect her wishes and you might find she's the best friend you could ever ask for. If you carry on the way you are now, you'll lose the friendship.
2007-05-09 23:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny 1st 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not interested in you, dude. Stop making a fool of yourself. It looks bad and she's probably telling all the other girls about your desperate behavior. That will make it even harder for you to get anyone else, too.
If you're as smart as you claim to be, you should be able to figure that out! Man up, dammit!!!
2007-05-09 23:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if she'd rather have an immature guy than a responsible you, who are you to argue? get busy, go out and meet new people who'll appreciate who you are...
by the way, with your responsibilities and reputation to maintain, do you still have time for a girlfriend? just asking...
2007-05-09 23:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by reia_shoujo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
amazing, she apparently has no taste, you are such a catch, how dare her fall for someone else. maybe you should go on a fast for say a week, or you know like a hunger strike, that should show her how much you care for her, wear a sign around your neck telling of your virtues and his lacking character, that should do it.
2007-05-09 23:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by rosie p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont forget her you have to go get your girl be sweet and nice to her let her know you are always their for her then in time she might come back to you
hope everything works out for you
2007-05-09 23:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked her out and she said no. There is your answer. Stay friends, but it is not fair of you to resent her having other relationships.
2007-05-10 00:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋