Hi guys and girls,
Boy am I confused. Here goes:
we split about 5 months ago after alot of screaming and shouting from him and lots of him needing space and storming out. It got so bad, I left when he threatened to throw me out. There was no contact for 3 weeks, then he asked if I wanted to talk. We spent a few days together -mainly good. Then no contact. This went on for 3 months and finally I gave up trying. Still love him but its just too difficult. Then he appeared back in my life just as I was getting back on the dating scheme. Said he wanted to rebuild the trust but seemed totally incapable of actually clarifying where I stood with him. He would get angry and storm off whenever I touched on the topic. So I carried on dating and met my current bf. A few weeks ago I bumped into my elusive ex while with my bf. My ex contacted me last week and said to ring him. Now I am worried its all a control thing and he will mess things up for me. Help?
2007-05-09 23:21:47 · 6 answers · asked by confused chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a bit of a Drama queen for a lad. Sounds like my brother. I tell him to relax. Jesus. To no avail, but then I can't dump my brother. You can dump this wretch.
2007-05-09 23:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by TJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut all ties with this guy as it just seems that he was to have his cake and eat it to. It seems like you have found a lovely guy that you click with and having less dramas with him than your ex.
Remember you broke up with him for a reason and ask yourself do you want to visit old history and keep digging up old wounds.
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2007-05-10 06:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by O2Phone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cut off all ties that you have with him. If you don't make a clean break now, things may turn worst for you at a later stage. By then it may be too late for you already
2007-05-10 10:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your elusive ex that he had his chance already and that you are not interested in his childish games any more!!! He doesn't want you, but he doesn't want anyone else to have you it seems.
You are better of without this idiot!!
2007-05-10 06:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only appearing back in your life when it's convenient for him, or when he can't find a bootycall. It's just a way to keep you hanging on.
2007-05-10 06:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already moved on, lose your ex phone number and ask him to do the same.
2007-05-10 06:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Gary M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋