how do i stop my boyfriend getting jealous ?

Question

Im friends with all of my exboyfriends but one of them takes abit to much of a liking to me , ive told him that i have a boyfriend and my boyfriends knows about him but he still dont want me to talk to any of them , he dont like me meeting new men or talking to old friends .

how do i stop the jelousy ?

Answer 1

You are the one that is wrong and I can tell you think your doing nothing wrong.Well keep doing what your doing and your boyfriend will get sick of it and leave you .I bet you will no then how wrong you have been .

Answer 2

some would come here and give you some answer that is almost automatic without thought they will tell you that the boyfriend suffers from low selfesteme. i however must first suggest that your hanging around with boys who you had a sexual relationship with in the past would be for most people upsetting.
i suggest you limit your involment with previous boyfriends to a bare minium and that means only meeting with them in a group setting .
as for his not wanting you to talk with other guys that bit is a tad much . that part may be because your a flirt . i dont know .
i do think that he is a person that for some reason needs to feel more assured that your his girlfriend and your not planning or likely to go off with some other guy .
i hope this helps both of you .

Answer 3

If you are friends with your exes (as I am) your boyfriend should respect that - they are a part of your life that came before him, whether he likes it or not. The fact that they are exes is no coincidence - if you wanted any of them as more than friends, you wouldn't be with him, would you?
Also he should see it as a good thing that you can maintain a healthy friendship with these guys - it bodes well for him should things not work out between you two that you won't go "psycho-ex" on him!

As for the ex who gets too close, you have done the right thing by remindng him that you are with someone else. If he keeps pushing his luck, firmly tell him that you wish to stay friends, but nothing more, and if he really cares about you an your feelings then he needs to respect that. If he can't (or won't) then you need to lose contact with him.

Answer 4

In my own personal opinion, I don't think you should be hanging out one-on-one with ex boyfriends if you have a boyfriend, especially when he doesn't want you to. There is logic behind his jealousy. And you're also making friends with new men? I believe that men and women generally don't become just "friends." I predict that if you continue this behavior, you will find yourself in a position to cheat and will have to make a decision that will be tougher than you'd prefer. I just think it's better to not put yourself in that position in the first place if you value your relationship. But that's just my humble opinion.

Answer 5

well obviously the jealousy comes from insecurity/possessiveness. he is afraid he'll lose you. so the first thing you should do is to talk to him and assureyou lov him and that's why you're together in the first place. try to be more nicer/affectionate to him, so he would feel more secure. but if even like that he's trying to control your social life, maybe you should think twice about your relationship.

Answer 6

Tell him it's nothing big or simple yet, listen to him, or u will have another ex. Good Luck~

Answer 7

dump him. he's insecure. he feels like he's not good enough for you and you will obviously leave him for the next marginally decent guy who comes around.

this insecurity is very hard to break. i had a gf just like this. we broke up because of her insane jealousy.

do you really want to be with a guy who is insecure like this? it's types like this that will hit you too, though of course it is unlikely for any given guy.

Answer 8

have sex with him every sunday....haha