you just found out that she stole $250 out of your billfold. Would you wait until after the wedding to do something,...or would you do something before the wedding.????
Also, should you report her to the law enforcement, and let the legal system take its course with her.??? I need answers soon.
2007-05-09 15:48:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
the billfold was in a room, on top of a dresser, and she was not allowed in that room......
2007-05-09 16:20:41 · update #1
If you know that she definitely did it report her and let the law takes it's coarse, just because she is getting married does not allow her to do as she pleases, and does not mean you should be leniant with her, and I would report it to the work as well,maybe I'm heartless but what she did was wrong
2007-05-09 21:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would send her a card that stated I was going to give her $250 for a wedding present but some one stole it out of my billfold. I would have it delivered to the reception. I don't think the law would be necessary.
2007-05-09 22:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ell 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
if you have definite evidence that SHE stole the money (and it's not just a hunch or feeling), then call the police. it's best not to confront a thief if the police can better handle it. no need to have a huge scene or altercation when the legal system can take care of it. Remember stealing is stealing no matter who is doing it or what special occasion is coming up in their life.
2007-05-09 23:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by kevzvixen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, get law enforcement involved. Do something and do something now. Make sure you have all your evidence ready when you contact the police. Waiting is not a good idea - the authorities would wonder why you waited. She's a crook... regardless if she's getting married on the 19th! Maybe her fiancee should know about this before he marries her!
2007-05-09 22:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
If you know, you should report it now, with however or whoever you found out that she took the money.
Its best of the groom finds out she is a thief BEFORE the wedding instead of after, IF she is the one that did it.
2007-05-10 14:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should turn her in. It isn't anyone's fault but her own. She knew the consequences, and she did it anyways. Regardless if her wedding is coming up, you should tell. Besides, if she is a thief, she is probably a shady person, and will most likely get a divorce with that kinda mentality.
2007-05-09 22:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't say a word to her about it..... wait til she gets back to work after the wedding and honeymoon and surprise her with an email telling her that if you don't have your 250 back by the days end.. in cash.. since that's what she took from you.. then hubby dearest is going to learn what a thief his wife is. the email will be your proof that you warned her...
2007-05-09 22:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by bytchy_princess 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
See I hate people who steal others property so what I would tell her to give you the money, or you call the cops, but make sure you have proof cuz you are just going to get embarrassed.
2007-05-09 22:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by gloriousgabe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely say something and I would definitely report her asap. What she did was unethical and illegal not to say immoral, this is a situation that needs to be dealt with now.
2007-05-09 23:09:14 · answer #9 · answered by miss m 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So what if she's getting married! If you know she stole it, tell now. She was wrong, you know about it. I'd tell, even if it was for the simple fact it's not on my conscience.
Follow your heart!
2007-05-09 22:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by Christina C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋