i've been friends with this girl for while ive been always trying to be more than friends if you get me. I've asked if she intersted in me she says yes do want more wants to be more than friends she usually says she doesnt want to rush im ok with that but recently like last month she suddenley stop talking to me i dont know what i did wrong i dont know if she is not interested in me anymore and she doesnt want to tell me it so she just doing that hopefully not or she jus taking a break from me or is playing hard to get i dunno im confused should i go looking for her or should i play cool like im not concerned about her and wait for her to comeback.Im open to answers from everyone thanks.
2007-05-09 14:49:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your confusion is based on not wanting to see the handwriting on the wall. If she's avoiding you then you have your answer.
2007-05-17 08:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the deal. If you know she is interested you need to stop burning time and ask her to go out. Take her to dinner or something.
She probably is just tired of waiting for you to ask her out.
Find her right now and ask her out man. Don't let any more time slip away because might become totally disinterested.
2007-05-09 22:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she lied to you saying she likes you to be nice, or she can be a little scared or hesitant to get into a relationship...sometimes girls push guys away because they are not interested in the guy and don't want the guy to pursue them or they are too scared to get into anything serious because they've been hurt before in previous relationships, it's confusing! I suggest you pursue her, talk to her and straighten things out.
2007-05-09 22:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Time to Pretend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! See when I don't like someone I'm guilty of not talking to them!!!But she maybe playing hard to get. Or maybe shes a b**** I don't know. But scrap her off for now let her come running back to you!! Best of luck!!
2007-05-09 21:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by **JaeAnswers! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I avoid someone, I'm not just playing hard to get, I really don't want anything to do with the person. But that's me, everybody's different.
You should just ask her if she likes you, or if she would prefer it if you moved on.
2007-05-09 21:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Terri C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're putting too much pressure on her. You're scaring her. Leave her alone for a little while.
2007-05-09 21:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ R.I.P Spike ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah lay off her.
for now look for other girls and she'll come around eventually.
sounds like she felt pressured
2007-05-09 21:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by Buggy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for goal she is trying to find out if u really like her
2007-05-09 22:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont chase --- if a lady is playing hard to get i dont play ---- if she is interested she will let you know --- best wishes
2007-05-09 21:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, perhaps youre scaring her.If she ignores you, then she is not interested.
2007-05-09 21:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by nastypavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋