he says that he loves me but one problem he has too many friends girls to be exact he tells me he has to go with her and her and other girls to talk to.What should i do?
2007-05-09 14:34:03 · 26 answers · asked by blackcat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dONT WORRY! i AM A GUY, AND I HAVE A GF AND I STILL TALK TO GIRLS! tHERES NOTHING WRONG!!!!
2007-05-09 14:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by kayla w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are simply difficult. Depending on how long you've been with your boyfriend (I'm guessing not too long because you're just addressing this issue) you should see just how close he really is with these girls. I would try to hang out with these other girls and see what they are like. Don't come out and be jelous right away because you want to seem confident. If he seems to be WAY too flirty and over the edge for you, you can confront him. If he blows you off and says your being ridiculous maybe you should reconsider your future with him. It's okay for a guy to have one or two close girl friends. Make sure his intentions are in the right place though. Good luck
2007-05-09 21:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by Steph U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is, did he had friends (girls) before you and him became an item?
If so, you were already aware of his friends (guys and girls). Therefore, you are becoming a jealous girlfriend and jealousy will lead to very bad things.
If not, I think it's time for you to end it before it gets ugly.
On a positive note, if you truly trust him, then it should not matter.
2007-05-09 21:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by Green Skull 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having girls as friends isn't the problem. Is he spending enough time with you? Is he ditching you for them? Now that's a problem. If you can't deal with him having female friends, then you need to leave him. Chances are he'd end up picking them over you in the end anyway.
2007-05-09 21:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ R.I.P Spike ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he doesn't want to just stick to you, his circle of friendships seem to be huge, and he is not ready for a serious relationship. So if you can't stand his flirting with other girls, better leave him, and give your attention and affection to someone who really deserves it. You see, you two have not get married yet and you already had this problem, what if you are married to him, then you sure will not be happy, so it is time to think about your future...
2007-05-09 21:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by emma l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all... if you dont have trust, you dont have anything! you need to be able to trust your BF. what kind of girlfriend do you look like? boyz get annoyed when their girl is all down their back and pesky. now... if you ask to come and he says no then you have something to think about. if you ask him where hes going and he sasys something like to the mall with his friends, and you ask to come, he says no... he could be cheating. this really isnt a healthy relationship. A relationship doesnt work when only ONE person is putting in effort.
2007-05-09 21:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by CheySemone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he seems to be making you suspect something, am i right? first of all he should respect you cause you are his girlfriend and he should be with you, not them other skanks!!! lol nah but think about it and tell him how would he feel if you had a lot of guy friends and you "had" to go talk to them? turn the tables, play his game. don't let this guy be playing you a fool. and if your sleeping with him... girl that's a big mistake!!!
2007-05-09 21:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has all of those "female friends" that he has to make time for then when are you getting your time?
Girl put that trophy on the shelf, go out and find you somebody else.
2007-05-09 21:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you telling me you don't talk to other guys? it's normal...even if you have a significant other, you still need the opposite sex for companionship at least. come on...it's necessary. that way if you are having problems understanding your boyfriend, you can talk to other guys and see if their point of view makes any more sense. in a way, you should be greatful that he talks to other girls. they can help him with gift ideas, surprises, and help him understand what girls want.
2007-05-09 21:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by Love Child 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
part of life baby, people have friends. some people just get along with the opposite sex better. dont tell him ur jealous nobody likes hearing u dont like them hanging with there friends
2007-05-09 21:46:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont trust him and im a guy. Too many players out there.
2007-05-09 21:42:05 · answer #11 · answered by PushSucharaX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋