and her friend said i was the only person she would talk about.her friend also said she said she loved me all the time. should i believe her or not
2007-05-09 13:41:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, until she proves otherwise
2007-05-09 13:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't you believe her?
You should take someone's word as truth unless you have a reason not to. Does she have a history of cheating? Have you seen clues that makes you think she is unfaithful? Does she seem not interested in you?
If you have been hurt before, don't believe that everyone will cheat on you. So many girls just want a faithful, honest and loving monogamous relationship, just like you. Learn to trust and your heart will be open to love. Sounds corny, but it is true. Good luck.
2007-05-09 20:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is built on trust. For starters stop judging her with a chinese court thinking (guilty before proven innocent). Not all girls are cheating lying money munching machines, and the basis of this relationship is going to depend on how you act about this.
Give the girl a chance, and forget about your past. It only drags you down when you enter another relationship
2007-05-09 20:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't you believe her? Don't start thinking disaster straight from the beginning for if you do you will create just that with the energy your putting out there. Stop thinking the worst and be grateful and thankful you have someone sincere in your life and be blessed for it.
2007-05-09 20:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by My Business 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are the both of you? if you havent been dating long then its probaly just lust but if you been dating for like months then she may very well love you. But why would she say she would never cheat on you? That sounds kind of weird
2007-05-09 20:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by weeping_spirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally understand where you're coming from. i don't trust people that easily and i'm very cautious about who i let get close to me. but there's no way for any other person to tell you if you should believe your girlfriend or not. you're the only person that can figure that out. and the only way to figure that out is to ride the relationship out for as long as is possible to see if she's as real as she says she is
2007-05-09 20:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by Rae G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break this to you, but she is already cheating on you. Whenever a woman says, "I would never cheat on you" you should find out what is included in her definition of cheating and what is not, and then ask her how many guy "friends" she has.
2007-05-09 20:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by FatBoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe in her. Believe in everyone until they prove they can not be trusted! I believe the majority of people are trustworthy.
2007-05-09 20:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by krjam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you worried about has she done something to make you feel that you don't trust her have you heard something seen something. I think you need to calm down and relax and just enjoy your life with this girl.
2007-05-09 20:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have a definate reason not to, then, yes, belive her. Not trusting her is not a way to start a relationship.
2007-05-09 20:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋