I really like this guy alot. We talk all the time, and i really enjoy talking to him. Were kinda friends, but we haven't been for all that long. So he comes to me asking for advice about how to ask a girl out. Turns out, this girl is one of my friends, but he didn't know we were friends. I've been helping him out, but it really hurts cuz i like him so much. I know she's going to say no too. She has already told me. So what should i do? Should i try to persue him? If so, how? I really like this guy, and he is so sweet. Im so confused!! HELP!!
2007-05-09 13:23:46 · 3 answers · asked by Marcela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm. This is like Cyrano de Bergerac in reverse. Cyrano helped his best friend woo a girl, even though he loved her himself.
What to do? Sympathize with him when she turns him down.Offer to have a 'just friends' date with him to make up for it, then go somewhere interesting and do some fun stuff together. If he isn't a complete dolt, he'll get the picture...
2007-05-09 13:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible that the guy is too shy to ask you out so he is purposly getting you to ask out someone else to make you feel jealous. If you give off that reaction he could realise that his feelings arnt all one sided.
Drop the poor fella some clues, see if he catches on :)
2007-05-09 20:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him and see what happens.
2007-05-09 20:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋