Is there anything wrong with being a virgin?

Question

Im only 15 and all my friends think ima dork for wanting to wait. And I havent had sex yet.is there soemthing wrong am i a late bloomer?

Answer 1

Your not a late bloomer, your just a whole lot smarter then your friends. Good for you for waiting. You go girl.

Answer 2

No, there is absolulely nothing wrong with it! What kind of friend are they to make you feel that way? Perhaps they are insecure about the decisions they made themselves about sex and so they turn the tables on you.

Don't feel that you must respond to the pressure of your peers. Respect yourself and your body to wait until you are ready and with a person you want to be with. It is your body and your boundaries. I can tell you from experience more than likely there are more virgins your age than you realize. Not everyone is really doing it and not everyone is happy they did it once they have done it.

With sex comes the worry of pregnancy and std's even when you do practice safe sex condoms can fail and so can the pill. No birth control method is absolutely certain. Just one look a the all the questions on yahoo about could I be pregnant and you will realize that waiting is a lot less worry and a lot less stress! Enjoy your teen years you can have a lot of fun without having sex!

Just so you know my son is a 17 year old virgin he and his girlfriend since the first grade are both very committed to waiting. He is a varsity football player who is a starter and very popular, as well as in all advanced placement classes and has had interest from Princeton. So, your not the only one! A lot of kids who are not dorks or late bloomers have made the choice to wait even if they don't advertise it!

Answer 3

NOWAY! there is nothing and I repeat absolutley nothing wrong with that.It is a very good thing it means you are a classy lady that respcets herself enough to wait and tell a boy NO.
I think you should wait untill you are married because when you have sex with somone you open yourself emotionally and you feel an attachment to him and when he leaves you because he has gotton what he wanted or for any other reason it will feel awful. When you are that young you cant know for sure that you and that boy are going to get married even though most girls think you can and thats why they go ahead and have sex but really you shouldnt expect that you guys are too young. And really when you are dating there is no comitment, he can deciede he doesnt want to be with you tomorow or next week or in the next five minutes and you will feel like an idoit when he leaves you and you had sex with him. And even more of an idiot when the whole school knows you did and knows exactly what you did and exactly what he did while you guys were doing it becuase trust me boys talk about that stuff.

there is SSSSSOOOO much more to life then sex. live your life,educate yourself, and have fun. and the sex will come WHEN YOU R OLDER youll have so much of it youll be sick of it.
BE PROUD TO BE A VIRGIN!!!!

Answer 4

3 Poptart,
There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin, it shows self control & character.

I know how you feel I was a virgin till I was 18 (my wedding night)
some of my friends thought I a dork, but after I told them it was my choice to be a virgin not theres , they got off of it.
I stopped hanging out with some of my friend because of this
, but when I think back I am glad I did.
It is better to wait on having sex till your older.I am not trying to sound old but this is the truth I seen people go through this. When you have sex there is always a chance that you could get a sexual transmitted disease or pregnant . (condoms & birth control do not protect against sexual transmitted diseases .. Even with condoms & birth control there is still a chance you could still get pregnant. One of my friends got pregnant when she was 15 thats how I know)

You should be proud to be a virgin . Staying a virgin till your married has its advantages too, because It helps you to find out which boys are really in to you as a person.
There is some things in the Bible about being a virgin too, But I know how if you want me to post them for you or not?(that was one of my main reasons for being a virgin)

Main thing is who cares what people think.
It more important to make choices that you are comfortable with, not your friends.

I hope this helps *HUGS* If you ever need some one to talk to e-mail me

P.s I think your friends are the real dorks, your the cool one out of the group :)

Answer 5

NO, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin! I dont know you but I am proud of you for wanting to wait. You are not a late bloomer. Sex is a big deal and you should be certain that you are ready and confident in yourself. It is difficult when you face peer pressure ( I know, I waited too) but you will feel so much better about yourself if you trust your instincts.

Answer 6

You are a rare breed and that is WONDERFUL! You are not a dork. You are a responsible young lady and very mature for your age. I admire you for standing up for what is right. Peer pressure can be a terrible thing. Keep your standards and your morals high. In the end you will be the girl with the best guy because the good guys prefer to marry someone who has not slept around. You should be proud that you are making wise decisions. Good luck!

Answer 7

OK look this may not be something that I should say to you but as a mother of a girl almost your age I feel the need to. Sex is something that you should not have unless you feel ready. If you do it for the wrong reasons it will lead you down a path that is best not taken. Just because people ( I would not really call them your friends) say you should is not good enough. The lack of self respect that would come along with it is just not worth it. You all so have to think of all of the chance of disease and other things that can come of it. Life is to short as is for you to feel pressured in to doing something that you dint want to do. I would suggest that you tell them where they can shove it.

Answer 8

There is nothing wrong with you!! There is something wrong with your friends though if they are making fun of you!!! My friends used to make fun of me too but guess what, now they wish that they had held out too!! Mostly because now they realize that they were with too many people, too young... oh, and not to mention the one that got an STD!!! She will forever have that (it flares up sometimes) and the guy is LONG gone... as a matter of fact, I had to go to their apartment and move her out before he got home... he was cheating!! He was not there when she went to the doctor to find out what was wrong with her vigina, he wasn't there when she called her dad and told him about it, he wasn't there when she went through the treatments that hurt so bad, he wasn't there as she cried because of the pain and the heartbreak... I was and I don't think it was fair but she made the bad choice. It is not that special after you have been with several people (or so they tell me). I would say hold out for at least 5 more years and make sure that it is someone that is special!! Also, you don't want to end up pregant at the age of 15!! Just think before you do!!! Good Luck!!!

Answer 9

Hunn listen to me and if you're 15 and you wanna have sex then you should think again there's abolutely nothing wrong with still being a virgin!Sex is sacred and should not be given away for the wrong reasons!You have to remember that once you lose your virginity you can NEVER GET IT BACK! So if you wanna listen to your friends then you can because its your decision but I think you should wait because it sounds like your friends have made the wrong choices and followed the wrong path!

Answer 10

You should be proud of the fact that you haven't displayed yourself as a whore like your other so-called "friends" already did. There's absolutely nothing wrong with still having your virginity at age 15 (don't worry, I'm right there with ya).

Don't worry, when the moment is right and the guy is perfect, everything will fall into place. And I'm sure you'd rather lose your virginity with someone you truly like/love than someone who's just trying to use you. Don't listen to your friends' ignorant accusations - they're only making themselves look bad.

Answer 11

no you are not a dork. i am 16 and will be 17 and i plan on waiting til marriage. it is better to wait than be stupid and risk getting an STD or chance the condom breakin and gettin pregnant when you are not ready. so what if they pick on you? i get picked on also. but just imagine if you did happen to get pregnant, what would your friends say then? you are actually very smart. in fact a lot of guys respect girls even more when they wait. keep it and make it special. and way to go, keep it up. =)