i have never seen my father in my whole entire life...and i really want to know what he is like....me my never wants to talk about it. my brother just doesnt even want to talk to me! and i just feel like something is missing from my life. is it okay to cry about it?
2007-05-09 12:54:35 · 9 answers · asked by xom3ganxo1369 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
whenever you are sad, tears come. sure, it okay to cry. but don't make it take over your life. your family doesn't want to talk about him and you have to respect their wishes for the time being. eventually, you can find out on your own, if you feel that strong about meeting him. remember, your family have their reasons for not wanting to talk about him. they may be trying to protect you. it seems we always want something that we cannot have or cannot find out about. know in your future, you can do your own searching for your dad, but, for now, why not concentrate on being happy with the family you do have. it's sad when we sabotage ourselves of happiness over something or someone that we know nothing about. there will come a time when you know about him, and, that's the time to realize if you are sad or happy over what you missed. enjoy your present and don't worry over things you think you have missed or are missing. save that judgment for the day when you finally do find out something about him or you happen to come face to face with him. make each day count for YOURSELF and try to think only good things that YOU want for YOUR life. good luck to you.
2007-05-09 14:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. It worries me if it seems to be bothering you constantly though.... have you anyone else in your life as a dad figure?
I learnt a long time ago that a dad and a father are two different things. Although it's ok to be sad about a father you don't know, it's healthy to remember that there are other people in your life that may not be blood- but are definately family.
2007-05-09 21:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by Isabel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. i don't cry fairly. i can in basic terms think of of two time that i've got cried in like a month. One may be as quickly as I observed a image of one of my pals returned while she had maximum cancers, and the different became into at like 3 interior the morning while i became into staring at Aquamarine. i'm this way of rock.
2016-12-11 05:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to cry, but don't dwell on your sadness for too long. If you have a hard time not thinking about it, talk to your mom about how you feel, but don't demand to know what he's like. She'll tell you when she thinks you're ready.
2007-05-09 13:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its okay to cry about it. Because its giving your self some time to grive for not having him in your life
2007-05-09 13:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by weeping_spirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation until i was 14, and before i had been upset about it. if you're upset about it, then i believe you should look him up, even though its kind of hard. on one of the child support papers he sent, they accidentally put on his email, so my mom emailed him and 2 years later im moving in with him.
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2007-05-09 20:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to cry about ANYthing
you will know him someday, i'm sure, and probably wont want to
2007-05-09 13:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a sicologist
2007-05-09 15:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sarina D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋