Whats wrong with GOOD people??

Question

WHY IS IT THAT, ITS ALWAYS THE GOOD PEOPLE THAT FINISH LAST??...THE PEOPLE THAT CHEAT, LIE, AND BE WITH SOMEONE FOR ALL THE WRONG REASONS ALWAYS SEEM TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP...BUT THE HONEST, MATURE, AND GOOD PEOPLE...SOMEHOW ENDS UP LONELY[WITH THE EXCLUSION OF A FEW]....BUT WHATS WRONG??

Answer 1

Well, how would you like to be in a relationship knowing that it is built on lies and cheating? I would certainly prefer to be single in that case.

So those without integrity to whom you refer, do you think they have something better than you? Don't you realize that they wouldn't be cheating and lying if their were truly happy?

You don't know what is really going on behind closed doors, so don't compare yourself to others.

Answer 2

Well those who cheat and lie and think that they are all that they are once who fall flat on their face and the good ones r the one who ending up having a nice girlfirend or boyfriend and also they are more happier than the lairs and the cheats so it's better to finish last and with the best

Answer 3

I think this is because those who cheat, do things exclusively for themselves, as good people look after the needs of others as well as their own, which makes them look less important because they're not as pushy, or obnoxious, so are noticed less often. I really think this needs to be changed... but that would involve a whole lot of work.. oh well... everything has to start somewhere, and that place is people looking after people other than themselves.

Answer 4

I think its because the other kind of person makes themselves sound so good its almost in possible to not want to date them. But the ones that are honest well we tend to just come on out and say what we are looking for. And we dont always finish last some times we will find some one just like us and its also because we are so picky

Answer 5

They mean good people finish last in the sense that the only way to climb up the ladder of life is to cheat, but you can cheat and be somebody, or you can be a good person and be somebody everybody likes.

Answer 6

Unfortunate it's dog eat dog in this world. If your not aggressive, you will finish last.
My opinion with this is..WHO CARES ANYWAY!!!
Women can be so desperate and will do whatever they can to get the guy, but those relationships don't last.
Don't be disillusioned. You will be in a loving relationship one day. But don't get frustrated and take anything that comes long. Your deserve the very best, and you will just be patient!
Good Luck!

Answer 7

The good people are the ones who WILL find their special sweetie =].

The people who lie, cheat and just aren't relationship material type are the people who end up with multiple people.

Answer 8

You need to look for a relationship with a mature person and realize that someone good is looking for you, you just haven't found them yet. Try meeting someone at a place that you enjoy being ( a library, a coffee shop, a sci-fi convention...whatever.)

Answer 9

aw those people, i know what you're feeling like. don't worry in the long run the good people are the ones that WILL make the living and WILL be successful and WILL have lovely relationships for the right reasons. just keep at it, everything will work out don't worry.

Answer 10

because the lieing cheating ones are cocky, and come off as confident. and people like confident. but if someones cocky, then they are able to attract someone who they can cheat with, they are able to pull off lies [ or at least think they are] and dont really care about the reason they are in the relationship as long as they are in one and know that someone loves them as much as they love themselves.
honesty and maturity dont keep people interested, i guess?