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i need to know what ,to say can u give me ideas?

please

2007-05-09 12:48:14 · 19 answers · asked by Brandi J 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

19 answers

if you are young which it sounds as if you are.... we have all been there... that silence on the phone... trying to think of somthing to say...it's terrible... i always found and still do find that the conversations that you have to try and make small talk and think of somthing to say usually the relationship just doesnt go anywere... in other words somtimes two people just dont click.,.. but here is some advice for what to talk about...

1st write of list of things, subjects, or things you want to talk about... keep it with you so when he calls or you call him you have it... dont read off it just use it as reference...

one other thing is guys love to hear about themself if they play football, baseball etc... tell him he did a good job, ask him what he likes best about it... and most important ask him somthing about the game .. evenif you know it.. guys love to talk sports.... this is really important ... he will LOVe to talk about sports.

other than that tell him some of your intrests.

good luck

2007-05-09 12:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by caligrl 5 · 0 0

For one YOU always answer by saying HI May I help YOU? Then if the person ask for you Say Hi and see where it leads you from there Sometimes just saying HI at first breaks the coldness on the phone If you only get HI back then Say hows your day going or may i help you? Depends on your age also Because older people do really act more mature sometimes But being a teenager YOU may want to get into a conversation of what are you doing????....I would suggest that if it is someone that you really want to chat with really bad then say HI HOW ARE YOU Nice hearing from you Good LUCK hope this helped And always BE YOURSELF on the phone Dont put on errors just to impress someone IT catches up to you in the end

2007-05-09 19:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by chubbycheeks012003 2 · 0 0

any intrests say your listening to music ask him about his musical intrests versus your own, do you play any sports if so this is a great conversation subject as many guys love sports and the thought of a girl being able to relate is a huge plus secondly where do you like to hang out better yet ask him and then give your input talk about a movie you would like to see of a show your would like to go to and see if he offers to go with you, also sounds dumb but if your good at a school subject and hes not maybe you can help him that right there would take your relationship to the next level as you would spend time with eachother

2007-05-09 19:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hi

2007-05-09 19:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by kc 5 · 0 0

it just depends on the boy how you will get along on the phone! My boyfriend of 7 months is horrible to talk to on the phone, it's like talking to a wall! I still very much like him tho! Don't worry about it! It will flow or it won't flow, it doesn't mean that you don't like each other!

2007-05-09 20:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by rusty71987 4 · 0 0

most guys don't like staying on the phone see if you can find out abouts what sport he's interested in talk about that for a little bit and make it short. it works.

2007-05-09 19:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by gayannboxing 2 · 0 0

Hello, how are you is always a good start. Maybe you should not be talking to boys yet since you have NO clue what to say.

2007-05-09 19:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0 0

hmmm good question haha. just ask him about himself, get a topic going. try to agree on something if possible. orr maybe if you're not the agreeing kinda person, have a debate haha

good luck =]

2007-05-09 19:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by soccerkickchic23 2 · 0 0

its ok that you need help, when i talk to him i sound like a tart, and mumble, and say something stupid that doesn't make sense, and if your just scared to sound like a fool, don't be, maybe he likes you for your sponeanity, and just talk about thing, like school, sports, likes and dislikes, if he's your boyfriend ask him to hang out or ?, dont say like an answer like ok, hi, so or something i had a guy who broke up with my best friend because apparently she would never finsih or say how she felt or something, like he would say hey whats up hows it going, and shed say fine or ? and wont ask him, like REMEMBER ALWAYS ASK HIM TOO THEY LIKE TO BE INCLUDED TOOgood luck

2007-05-09 19:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by sy♥ 2 · 0 0

umm try to avoid awkward silence so like be sure to have a funny story from u're friends or something, if u like him ask him to help u with a preoblem wither with one of u're friends or with school and be happy and be all like "thanks a lot" and he'll think that he did a good job and stuff like dat

2007-05-09 19:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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