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how can i forget my ex..i loved him so much but as i said he was basicaly playing me and i was stoopid enough to believe him when he used to say"i love you too..."and now i keep on hearing all the songs he dedicated to me!

2007-05-09 12:42:09 · 20 answers · asked by iwillalwaysloveyou_619 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Unfortunately we cannot forget or stop thinking of people as easy as we like, but it will happen. If you hear a song that he dedicated, turn off the radio, leave the room, or whatever will distract you. Actually distracting yourself is the best thing you can do. If work or school aren't enough, make more plans with friends, join a class, start a new hobby, anything. I know it may sound cheesy but those are the steps that will free you from your thoughts. Besides when you do new things, you meet new people...maybe someone who will love and respect you the way you should.

2007-05-09 12:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ohhh god. Been there and I just found out today he only "loved" me cuz I am pretty and he didn't give a $h*t that I was sweet, funny, and caring. What an @$$.

Just think, why have a guy like that when you deserve MUCH better? You deserve REAL love, attention, and a sweet caring guy. Not a jerk who likes to get in your pants and say that he loves you when he only loves you for your beauty.

Since my ex says he loved me for my beauty, I'm gonna start saying,"Well I only went out with him cuz I felt sorry that he was an ugly fat @$$." You should do the same.

2007-05-09 19:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Try meeting and dating new boys. Chances are you'll meet one you like that will be a true, dedicated boyfriend. Then you'll be able to forget your ex and move on. As for right now, try to forget by doing things/hobbies you love or hanging out with other friends.

2007-05-09 19:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

girl just go out and have fun. hate to say it but i'm still trying to get over one of my exes. he was such a sweetheart, but in the end he turned out to be way too insecure and broke up with me over the phone.... yea it sucks but hey that's life. just remember you're not going to completely forget them. it's best to live your life and not be held back by it. keep on moving you'll find someone eventually.

2007-05-09 19:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 2 · 0 0

Girl, I've been through this kind of crap.
Go find other guys and think of cute guys.
Especially since it's going to be summer... ;].
Think about other things and focus in on them. Keep him out of your head and life.
You know he has played with your heart and no person deserves a guy or gal who plays with their heart.

2007-05-09 19:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by that's cool 3 · 0 0

Yeah go out and meet other guys, but you have to ask yourself "why do I miss him?" If he was just messing around with you, why should you care about him? Why should you spend your time thinking about him? It helps when I just get angry about the situation and never let it happen again. Take charge. Works for me ;)

2007-05-09 19:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by NylaEla 1 · 0 0

Join a club or a church group. Get involved with other people so you can move on. Time will heal your sadness. Good luck!

2007-05-09 19:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by Maiden Fair 3 · 0 0

girl just believe in life and yourself that you can find a better man!!!! know that you have to be strong and everyone gets hurt by someone they loved. even if u love him forever... you wont forget him cause he is so special... but be happy and making YOURSELF HAPPY! do not worry about him he was not worth it and you should know that if he played you or hurt you..... BE STRONG AND BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!!! thats what i do... good luck girl!

2007-05-09 19:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just remember that it takes half the time that you guys were together to get over him. say you guys were together 1 year, it will take you up to 5 months to get over him. only time heals hun!

2007-05-09 19:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by mcaj05 2 · 0 0

i was the same, i still havnt gotten fully over the guy, but i dont love him as much as i used to, but what helped was seeing other guys.. but one good piece of help is your friends, they helped me get through.

2007-05-09 19:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥big♥hugs♥♥ 1 · 0 0

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