Ok so theres this guy at my school who is extremely good looking. However he's a Junior and im a freshmen, next year he'll be a senior and ill be a sophmore. I dont have any classes with him though and i REALLY want to get to know him. But i dont know how? i mean i cant just walk up to him in the hall and say hi. He'll think im crazy. What's your advice?
2007-05-09 12:41:45 · 18 answers · asked by Rebecca R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has any classes with you, a couple of quick, noticeable glances will help (but look away immediately after he turns his head towards you) grab his attention a little bit. Be partners with him (if you can) if your teacher wants the class to work on a cooperative assignment (i.e. - pick partners). Try to get near him or talk to him whenever you can, try and be with him to show him that you're interested in him.
If you see him in the hallways, say hi to him, even if that means going out of your way to get to him. Hopefully he'll notice this and take it into consideration.
Stop by his locker before, during, or afterschool (right afterschool usually works, since he should be by himself...unless he has a bunch of friends following him everywhere) just to say hi or start a quick conversation with a funny remark or something of that nature.
When you are able to talk to him, even if it's a brief conversation, remember some of the little things and bring it back up in a later conversation - it shows that you're definitely interested in him.
Eye contact and smiling/grinning or laughing while talking to him should send him a signal as well. For me, if a girl begins to smile a bit and keep eye contact (not in a freaky way...more like she's actually paying attention and actually interested in what I have to say), it's definitely a turn-on and good signal that she's interested.
All the little things will help. Just remember that these things take time and patience, so don't try and rush it, otherwise you may screw up. Eventually, he should open up a bit more and you can talk to him easily. It's always getting started that's the frustrating part, though.
Hope this helps a bit.
2007-05-09 12:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him think, its OK to just go up 2 him and say a hi or what up that's what starts the conversation if u dont do that then u are never gonna get 2 know him good luck and peace
2007-05-09 19:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by G-DOG THE ONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know this sounds crazy but, you should go up to him and say hi and just lay out what you think of him. For example one time I had the hots for this one football player who was way out of my league. Any ways I just walked strait up to him and said " Hi my names Sabrina" and I put my hand out. Its very uncomin for the guy to not except the hand (shake), If he doesnt except it your way better off cause thats a clear sign saying PSYCHO! lol Well back to my story. He shook my hand and I told him that I thought he was hot. He laughed a little and said thanks. Then I said "Well it was nice meeting you, so I guess I'll see you around" then I walked away. Now he comes up to me and says hi all the time, we didnt really ever date, cause he wasnt really my type when I got to know him better. This is what you should do because if you show him that your easy to talk to it will make it easier for him to talk to you, and if he thinks your crazy after words then well your probly better off cause no one wants to date a snob.
2007-05-09 20:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Nina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although you could be setting yourself up for disappointment, go ahead and talk to him!! I'm 20 and really really shy, so I would never approach a girl, but if she came to me, I would definately like it. My heart would be racing and i'd be sweating profusely, but what can go wrong? The worst that can happen is he blows you off. So, go get someone else. I'm sure you have no problems with guys. YOu've still got years before you find "the one"
2007-05-09 19:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by sectn_8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in class, write him a note, be like " i have no clue what going on"
or "will she ever stop talking" he'll probably answer, then get in a habit of it, addind more conversation. then talking. then invite him to hang out with your friends. gradually keep adding on. besides maybe he''ll get the point
2007-05-09 19:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by danc3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you look at him does he look back. If so, I think hi would work just fine, someone has to say to it first. You can't just march up to him, but you should be able to be at the right place at the right time.
2007-05-09 20:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by dossrocket 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear mini skirt to school and bend over in front of him. He'll introduce himself.
2007-05-09 19:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by mborto2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try finding out what clubs or activities he does. Then join them too. Itll be a good way to have something to relate to/talk about with.
2007-05-09 19:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accidently bump into him in the hallway several times and let him get to be able to recognize you, then bump into him again and start a conversation.
2007-05-09 19:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to do this in high school... If I were you, I would just try to find him on MySpace and then start talking that way.
2007-05-09 19:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by Frederick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋