I'm not sure if i like this guy, but i want to go to a movie with him. He's in the popular group at school, but i'm in the "unpopular group", not the nerds just i don't hang out with his group as much. i don't want to feel stupid because he doesn't know i like him. my friends don't even know i like him. my parents also won't let me go... HELP!
2007-05-09 12:38:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then dont go....or be yer daddy's little rebel and say your out to yer friends house...and go with him
2007-05-09 12:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, here are some techniques/suggestions that might help getting yourself noticed.
If he has any classes with you, a couple of quick, noticeable glances will help (but look away immediately after he turns his head towards you) grab his attention a little bit. Be partners with him (if you can) if your teacher wants the class to work on a cooperative assignment (i.e. - pick partners). Try to get near him or talk to him whenever you can, try and be with him to show him that you're interested in him.
If you see him in the hallways, say hi to him, even if that means going out of your way to get to him. Hopefully he'll notice this and take it into consideration.
Stop by his locker before, during, or afterschool (right afterschool usually works, since he should be by himself...unless he has a bunch of friends following him everywhere) just to say hi or start a quick conversation with a funny remark or something of that nature.
When you are able to talk to him, even if it's a brief conversation, remember some of the little things and bring it back up in a later conversation - it shows that you're definitely interested in him.
Eye contact and smiling/grinning or laughing while talking to him should send him a signal as well. For me, if a girl begins to smile a bit and keep eye contact (not in a freaky way...more like she's actually paying attention and actually interested in what I have to say), it's definitely a turn-on and good signal that she's interested.
All the little things will help. Just remember that these things take time and patience, so don't try and rush it, otherwise you may screw up. Eventually, he should open up a bit more and you can talk to him easily. It's always getting started that's the frustrating part, though.
As for your parents, they should learn to lighten up a bit. You only get to be a teenager once; why just blow it all off focusing on work when you have to do that the majority of your life anyway (i.e. - when you're an adult and have to work full time). As long as you can keep things under control and not let it affect you or school, they shouldn't be so worried about this. Besides, parents always say that they want to provide the best things they can for their children and make them live a happier and better life than they did - dating and being someone you really like a lot/love should be part of that "package."
Hope this helps a bit.
2007-05-09 19:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard! Well what i used to tell my parents when they wouldn't let me go on a date, i'd tell them my friend_______(close friend that i've mentioned to them about) was going to be there. Now getting him, I would start talking to him casually, you know, on a regular basis. Then i'd tell him, o whats her face likes you. he'd ask u questions nd u can say its your friend because you are one of yours friends! And give him "hints" describing you, then start writing notes, tell him "she's" a little shy and if he doesn't really seem to care or bite the bait, then he's not worth your time! He doesn't care so just go whatever and move on! Now if your friends are the blabber mouth type, then i'd keep on the DL(down low). If not, then tell them or at least one! It helps a lot when you have a good friend you can trust with that sort of stuff! or you can always take the forward approach and just come out and tell him!
2007-05-09 19:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by super_star77714 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents don't want you to go out with this guy don't go beleive me your parents love you and they only want the best things in the world for you and for you to have the best life you might not see it now but you will one day for right now just know that you parents have your best interest in mind at all times
2007-05-09 19:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by night owl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is only one way to find out, that is go out on a date with him. As far as getting around the parents just play some cards on them like "oh so your not going to let me date, and let me become a social misfit huh" or "you could date when you was young, thats how you found mum remember". Play at that angle and you should be able to worm your way out
2007-05-09 19:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your parents won't let you go.....then I don't see why you are stressing over this.
If you can't go, why even worry about it?
And you'll never know if he likes you unless you give it a chance. Believe it or not, even if you get rejected and feel like an idiot.....just a few days later something else will happen to somebody else, and EVERYONE will forget about you....
If you ever want to know, then you gotta try..
2007-05-09 19:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by jezyka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you shouldn't ask him. think of it this way, so you go to the movie with him even though your parents don't want you to, they figure out and you get like a week or 2 of grounding compared to 2 hours of fun not including that your parents aren't going to trust you for a long time. so don't do it.
2007-05-09 19:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by hope m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask your parents if they met him would they agree to let you go out. And Dont worry about which group you are in I think its awful how we allow ourselves to be labled. And just your parents they only want whats best for you
2007-05-09 19:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by weeping_spirit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang around him more at school and see if he's the type of guy you like. Then tell your parents about how nice he is.
2007-05-09 19:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by foxy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if ur parents won't let u go, then why are you worried about asking him to go to a movie with you? anyway, i would just hint at it at school and what not....u know what i mean. just make him notice u, and if he doesn't do anything about it, then just ask him. at least u'll know then if he does or not. then he'll know that u do, so if he changes his mind, then he'll know too. good luck!
2007-05-09 19:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by Lil Lawson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your parents wont let you go then don't even worry about it. don't ask him to a movie and then not be able to go...make sure you can go first. and gurly--the popular and unpopular thing...no one really cares about if their mature enough.
2007-05-09 19:43:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋