Have you ever had someone treat you like someone your not?

Question

I have spent my whole life trying to do the right things for the right reasons. I don't cheat, I am not controlling and I give my all in my relationships and try to be different than many men. I just do not understand why so many women in my life treat me like I am just the same as the ones who do these things. Anyone else ever get judged for something they are not, and what did you do to keep from becoming what they make you out to be anyway? I believe I am a good guy but for all its worth I still wonder if I shouldn't just be that way or give up all together in meeting someone who doesn't either treat me this way or take advantage of my kindness or use it against me.

Answer 1

I seem to attract kinky guys because of the way that I am built. I once had a man who was very kinky, but honestly, I dated him because he was very rich and good looking and at first I liked the way he fawned over me. But then he showed me a side of him that was so disgustingly kinky, I didn't care how much money he had or how good he looked, I had to leave him alone. He revealed to me that he thought it was normal for a man to be sexually interested in his daughter, and I was offended that he even shared that with me. I am very open minded and when it comes to sex, I have been experimental, but I am always a lady and I have a moral barometer. I couldn't stand that he thought that he could make me what he wanted to be in that respect.

Answer 2

i think you should just be yourself...the right girl will come your way soon and when she does your going to think, she so is worth what i went thru...i had a bf who use to hate it when guys stare at me when we were together so he use to make me eat and eat and eat like theres no tomorrow...i ended up dumping him cause he said to me that the only reason why guys stare is cause your attractive person with a hour glass figure and all they want from you is your ***, i was just trying to help you thats all, thats what he said....

anyway that relationship has long ended...dont let women treat you bad or try make you someone that your not!

Answer 3

AHHHHHH...YOUR SOOOO SWEEETTTT.....I LOVE A "MAN" LIKE YOU....

well i guess life is not FAIR right??

i think the more you give what they want the more they run away from you.....cuz maybe they felt boring or less challenging....dont worry all of us experience that.....so dont feel bad....good luck

Answer 4

Learn how to stand up for yourself (calmly -- no violence) when people abuse you or mistreat you. If you have no spine, then people will not respect you.


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BTW, people make mistakes. People will misjudge you from time to time. Don't get too bent out of shape about it, just calmly point out to that person that she is wrong.

Answer 5

Don't change who you are. Good women want good men.
Someone will come along and appreciate your kindness, you will appreciate theirs also and then pow!...happiness for both of you!
Be patient. :)