The kid is 1 or 2 years old my mom knows of course but sometimes I fell so bad because it looks like he pays more attention on her then us.
2007-05-09 12:27:00 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have to tell you, Nora, babies require a lot of effort. When she's a little bigger she'll be more independent.
Your dad loves you, and does the things he has to do to be with you.
Parents is not how you spell perfect. Parents is how you spell People who Love you.
2007-05-09 13:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you, and your parents need to sit down and have a talk with each other, on this topic. Communication is vital in all relationships. Please, let your dad know how you feel, what you have observed on attention from him to you, your mom, and this other child. Hi first responsibilities are to your mom and to you. You are his family. This child is his as well, and does have a responsibility to this child as well, however, ou and your mom come first. Maybe, if your mom and dad are willing, and if you are willing as well, and the child's mom too, maybe the child could sometimes (not all the time, just occasionally) join you your mom and dad on some fun acitivity together-like going on a picnic, or shopping together (clothes, etc.). Go to the park together. Again, I stress the point, your mom and you are to be your dad's first and main priority, not this other child. This other child should not be completely ignored, visitation can be set up thru the courts, for this child to maybe spend one weekend a month with you and your parents. If they are willing. I wish you and your family the best. Take care.
2007-05-09 22:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't fair or even nice that your dad pays more attention to the other child. Just remember though that this is not the little girl's fault. She did not have anything to do with it.
Another reason may be that your dad knows you have a good mother and are taken care of and he may worry about this little girl.
2007-05-09 19:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first consider that the child is not at fault in this, second try to talk to your parents about this because chances are if you don't you might grow resentful on this matter and last consider the possibility that you are now the older sibling who has to set a good example. congratulations my dear! welcome to the priviledged and responisbility filled world of the eldest kid in the family.
P.S. I'm the eldest in mine. : - D
2007-05-09 19:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by meredith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you told your Dad how you feel? Are you sure it's how you feel and not your Mom making comments and planting a bug in your ear?
2007-05-09 19:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋