why did God gave me one of the worst parents? watches?

Question

my parents neglected me, my brothers and sisters
my brother is scared to move out the house
my little sister has autism my mom never spins time with her child welfare came to my house like 10 time cause my sister keeps running out the house naked, my parents blame us for it
telling us we suppose watch her. M

Answer 1

I am so sad to hear about what you and your brothers and sisters are going through. Please don't believe people who tell you that suffering is a gift. It is not. It is simply wrong.

It is very clear that your parents are not going to listen to a rational conversation. They have not listened when the authoritites have come.

You sound very young to feel so much responsibility for all these people. Is there just one adult that you believe you can trust? It could be a teacher who seems understanding or a guidance counselor. It might be a priest or minister or rabbi. If you don't have one of those, ask a friend if they have one they trust, perhaps someone who works with youth.

You can't continue to do this alone forever. I grew up in alcoholism and violence. I was 33 before I ever said those words out loud to anyone. Please get someone to listen to you and someone to help.

Answer 2

Ultimately, it's something you have to work out for yourself.

As an Atheist, I could say that god didn't give them to you because there is no god. But the reality is that in your situation it doesn't matter if there is a god or not. Whether there is no god to help you or god helps those that help themselves, it still boils down to what choices you can make and what choices you do make.

Problems are not something that go away once you blame them on someone else. Whether it's you blaming god, your parents blaming you, or child welfare blaming your parents, none of that is going to help you or your sister.

Try to figure out what you could do that would help. For a start, talk to your school counselor.

Good luck.

Answer 3

why specifically do you suffer in this way, no one can answer. I know it breaks God's heart that you suffer but each person must be free to choose their own way. You may need to make some hard choices in your life. Stick with school as much as possible and if you need help talk with one of your teachers.

Your state may have someone who can help with your sister who has autism. Usually there is some kind of program for those who have developmental disabilities like autism.

I will pray for some peace for you. God has not left you alone, but he may be asking you to walk through this with him so that sometime in the future when you are older you can help someone else who has a similar problem.

EF

Answer 4

My life was very similar to this growing up. I am sorry that you have so much to deal with. It really SUCKS, You or your brothers or sister are not at fault for the child welfare stunt .Your parents are at fault, I am in no way telling you to stay in your home or to leave, but you should talk to someone you trust. God gives us freewill that means we have the right to choose the path we take in our lives and unfortunately that means children sometimes have to be caught up in the mess that their parents create. God loves you , I wish someone told me that when I was young. If you are willing to call on him he will get you through this . I lived through a heck of a lot, abuse,depression and no love from my parents . Through all this mess . I managed to get myself through school and eventually take custody of my sibling. I raised them me & my brother. My smallest brother is in college now to be a cop and none of this would be possible if not for God. God did not want this for you. If someone offers you a chance for help please take it. I will be in prayer for you and your family. God Bless you.

Answer 5

I am truly sympathetic with your strenuous situation.
I do not have to deal with such matters but it must put you to the test.
Why do you say God is responsible?
Your parents are the result of their parents and their parents are the result of your great-grandparents.
Go all the way back to Adam.
That's why the Bible says: "Through 1 man sin enter into the world and sin spread to all men.'
You may not like your parents, you may clearly see how they can improve ....but they are needing help as much as you are.
Sometimes pride & arrogance get in the way.

Answer 6

It is called Karma from a Previous life. (karma are the reactions from our previous actions) One child is born blind and another healthy and another in a wealthy family or another in a poor family due to past deeds done. God didn't do it it is the law of nature to get what you put out. You can pray and keep surrendering to God and just know that that situation is all temporary. If one wants to counteract all karma the quickest way is to chant the names of God or the Maha Mantra for all info go to harekrishnatemple.com Read Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada- One can not understand the unlimited mercy and love of God unless they understand Karma, reincarnation, and no one goes to hell eternally, (that's a fact) Sorry to hear you are suffering so much. Please check this all out. This knowledge helps so much.

Answer 7

In Luke 13:a million-5--the incident of those whose blood grew to become into mixed with the Roman sacrifice, and those 18 who fell interior the nicely of Siloam--Jesus pronounced that activities like this are no longer led to by God. they're only accident. it somewhat is the comparable on your case. do no longer blame God, blame your mothers and fathers. provided that upward thrust to the party and make your self clever to society. do no longer gripe and think of the international owes you one.

Answer 8

It happens when there is no love and compassion for one another. You need to sit together and talk about the matters with ur family and siblings. Its good that you felt it.. so being a responsible one.. have a talk. and if possible, bring some respectable person like grandpa or ma or your teacher whom you think is fair, unbaised and justified.

Good luck:)

Answer 9

take care of your brothers and sisters, and go to school and study hard. They need you right now, you will grow up fast and you will be on your own someday. I feel sorry for you though, wish I could help you more.

Answer 10

Keylow k.you must tell child welfare how "you" are feeling. people care for you and your family, there is a better life for you and your siblings you must confide in someone trustworthy, I will pray you get help very soon. Good Luck to you.