SERIUOS RELATIONSHIP. ME AND MY BF IN SEPT GOT A HOUSE. HIS MOM WAS IN AND OUT OF TEMP POS. SHE GOT EVICTED SO SHE MOVED IN WITH US WHICH WAS FINE AT THE TIME, ITS BEEN 8 MONTHS NOW AND SHE WONT LEAVE. SHE IS COMPLETLY CAPABLE OF SUPPORTING HERSELF. ITS ONE EXCUSE AFTER ANOTHER 1ST IT WAS NO PERMANET JOB, NOW SHE HAS A PERM JOB. THEN IT WAS MY CAR BROKE DOWN WELL NOW SHE HAS A NEW CAR, NOW ITS THE EXCUSE SHE WANTS TO HELP MY BF GET A CAR. SHE HAS MAJOR CONTROLLING ISSUES! !SHE WILL CALL US WHEN WE R GONEAND ASK "WHERE ARE YOU GUYS? WHAT ARE YOU DOING" WHO ARE YOU WITH" WE HAVE NO PRIVACY IN OUR OWN DAMN HOUSE! SHE SMOTHERS US! MY BF WANTS HER GONE AS WELL. WE WANT TO MOVE ON WITH OUR RELATIONSHIP. I REALLY CARE ABOUT THIS WOMEN I JUST WANT A LIFE WITH MY BF OUR PROBLEM IS IF MY BF TELLS HER TO GO SHE WILL THINK ITS ME AND I KNOW SHE WILL MAKE THE FAM HATE ME! I CARE ABOUT HER I JUST DONT WANT TO LIVE W/ HER NE MORE HOW DO WE GET HER OUT WITHOUT HURTING ME AND HERS RELATIONSHIP
2007-05-09 11:20:17 · 9 answers · asked by M.J. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You and your b/f need to take back the control of your lives and your home. Tell her she has to go and set a deadline. Who cares what others make think of you? If they have a problem with this, then they need to invite this woman to stay at their place.
2007-05-09 11:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is not the mother-in-law, it's your boyfriend. The simple answer is that he doesn't want to tell her it's time to go. By the way, this is going to be the way things are for the next 40 years, if you marry this guy. If he won't stand up to his mom now, what makes you think he will when you are married? My advice to you is move out. You shouldn't be shacking up with him anyway. He will have to choose between you or his mom. If his mom wins, you have dodged a bullet.
2007-05-09 11:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her straight up how you feel no matter what. It sounds like she has issues alright. Even if the family and her are mad at you for a while it will blow away. The only other alternative, if your lease is up, is for the two of you to move out and leave her there.
2007-05-09 11:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by ruanartist2 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old is she? After all, if she is really your prospective mother-in-law, you should respect her too. Find a good time and have his son to communicate with her.
2007-05-09 11:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by jolin10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her son needs to rent her a place and move her.
2007-05-09 11:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want her out, you have to have your boyfriend tell her or you have to move out yourself. Those are your only choices.
2007-05-09 11:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say when she at work put her crap on the street and change the locks too....put a note on her stuff time to go by lady..
2007-05-09 11:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you want to move on with your relationship, and see what she says.
2007-05-09 11:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like someone needs to set a fire under her ***!
2007-05-09 11:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋