alright so today was the worst day
ever. my 3 best friends are
telling lies and rumors about me
and i cant stand it anymore
they are both reversing the story
and telling everyone i spread stuff about them'
but thats totally not true. i would
never do that. and im the one who
introduced my best friend to my other
2 best friends now there all best friends and
i feel like ive been replaced and they
ignore me. what should i do?
should i ditch them. and find new friends
or deal with it
2007-05-09 10:15:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
real friends wouldnt start rumors about you but dont be rude or mean to them
2007-05-09 10:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by jomama1234 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, I can tell you that "He say... She say" can break up many friendships and a happy home.
You said that those are your best friends. Best friends don't spread rumors about one another. If anything if they are your best friend - they would be apart of the rumor too!
Sometimes it's hard to have more than one close-knit friend because everyone does not think a like.
What you should do is play it cool. Do yourself a favor and never change for anyone! You are you and that is the one thing that no one can take from you. If they are your best friends and love you, they will stop what they are doing. If they aren't true friends then they will move on and you will have to find friends that are more sincere.
I suggest you talk to all of them! Tell them how they make you feel and listen to their feelings and come to a solid ground that no one should talk about anyone in a bad way (outside) of your friendship circle.
2007-05-09 17:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by ~Virtuous Woman~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone is playing a sick joke on you by spreading rumors. Just tell each of them that it wasn't you. Then ask if they know who did it. This should clear the air. It may take a few days for them to come around, but they will if they know the truth. By the way, never, never, never tell falsehoods!!!
2007-05-09 17:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by L S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them all. They are all bitches. Trust me. They are jealous of something. Girls are always jealous of other girls. Every girl out there wants to be the BEST so that she can have any man. It is all a contest to get men. They probably think that you are pretty, smart, and kind SO a wonderful man will want you. So your so-called FRIENDS are trying to bring you down...and in this way, feel good about themselves.
2007-05-09 17:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by BeautifulGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the absolute BEST thing to do is nothing! Don't react to them and their lies at all! ANy reaction from you is attention whether it is good or bad. That's what they want. Find new friends, and i'm sorry yours turned out like this. It's a tough age.
2007-05-09 17:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by DC818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same exact thing happened to me, they ripped me to shreds. I tried staying, but it just got worse. Get out now. Don't be friends with people who treat you like that. You deserve better. But before you stop being friends, just make sure it is what you want to do and that this is really what happened. Don't get in a big fight, just stop talking to them and don't hang out any more. Sorry to hear this. Girls really act like animals to eachother nowawdays. Good luck.
2007-05-09 17:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by * 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise is to not get sucked into this situation. ditch them and find new friends, people like that are not worth our time.
2007-05-09 17:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by damommyxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your Friends are ignoring you, and treating you bad thay where never really your Friends to start with. i went through the same things with some of my friends. i stayed friends with them, but at the same time i found new Friends to hang out with. but at the same time it is your disichen on what to do i wish you the best of luck on what you do
2007-05-09 17:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by josh h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they talk about you behind your back and spread lies about you then there not friends at all and you are probably better off without them.
AGONY UNCLE.
2007-05-09 17:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by coofooman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ditch them beacause they are telling lies about you.And here is some idvice tell them how you feel.
2007-05-09 17:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by niceyoshi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋