My boyfriend and I broke up about two weeks ago and ahe tells me that he has someone that he has spent time with since we have broken up. After he told me that I pretended to have someone myself , when he ask me about my imaginary friend and I tell him whats going on he gets so mad and irate what should I do.? I still have alot of feelings for him we've been together for 2 years and we've been through so much together, I try to do things to get my mind off of him but there;s not too much that I can do because I have one friend that I hang out with but she has a b/f and seems to never want to do any fun things cause her b/f wants her around him all the time. I have no family here with me so I feel so lost and lonely. Every thing I do I think about him. Please help
2007-05-09 10:03:23 · 6 answers · asked by cutecarribbeanbutterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need a fresh start. if there is no hope of you guys rekindling anything anytime soon. you just need to break contact for a while until you are over him. until then everythime u speak to him its going to be painful and u are going to have continue this lie. Im sure its time consuming because u are going to have to keep track. That the thing with guys too, they can do whatevr they want, but they expect us to sit a grieve and let tons of time pass b4 we move on. cant always be like that. you need a fresh start. join a gym. hang out wiht ppl from your job. try somethign u havent done before. sont be so caught up in him.
2007-05-09 10:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you tell him that what you do without him is none of his business. He lost that right when you both split up. Don't tell him anything about your dates, real or imagined. You might have a discussion with him about both of your feelings to see if there is the possibility of getting back together. Good luck.
2007-05-09 10:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by judirose2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you only told him that you had someone because you were mad and jealous. let him know how you feel. if he doesn't care then he's obviously not the right guy, then you'll have a good reason for moving on.
2007-05-09 10:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've broken up you have to move on. New friends, go to new places, meet new guys. He's gone, time for you to go to.
2007-05-09 10:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't give good enough reasons why you want him. If its just cause you are bored, find another boyfriend; you found him, so there is more guys out there!
2007-05-09 10:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... u should tell him how u feel. (MAN, that sound corny!) but, if u 2 were meant to be, then it will work out!
2007-05-09 10:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋