Please answer my three questions.
1.) If someone NEVER dates in high school and never has a boyfriend, would the guy she dates after high school not want to date her person because she is inexperienced?
2.) If you never get a boyfriend or girlfriend all through middle school and high school does that mean you never will in college or after high school?
3.) If you "went out" with someone in elementary school did you count them your bf or gf even though it is not really a bf or gf?
2007-05-09 10:00:07 · 10 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1 and 2. There are guys who want experience and some who want an inexperienced girl. In fact, most who would want to be with you would probably just want to know for purposes of how to treat you, and not be so worried about it.
3. Unless you found out too much about boys in sixth grade, I wouldn't count those elementary experiences.
2007-05-09 10:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...well, ok.
1- Just because you never dated in high school doesn't mean that someone will not want to be with you. Experience comes when experience comes, and if the guy were really interested he could care less when you got it.
2- Sometimes, you just don't find the person who's right for you when you are at such a young age. Sometimes, you won't find anyone until you are much older. But, just cause you never dated someone in high or middle school doesn't put a big red stamp on you that says "undateable." Don't lose hope: patience is the best policy when it comes to relationships.
3- Elementary relationships were just that: elementary. If you had to write a relationship resume, I doubt very much anyone would put "Kindergarten: Jimmy for two weeks. Reason for leaving: he wouldn't turn the jump rope for me." lol We were much younger and inexperienced at that age, and those relationships don't necessarily mean anything now. But, that's just my opinion though. If you would count it as a relationship, then that's what it is.
2007-05-09 17:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... where to start!!! Just because you don't date in high school doesn't mean you won't date in college. And if someone holds inexperience against you do you really want to be with that person? (I think not!) And yes when I was in grade school and "went out" with a guy We considered each other bf and gf. Just remember that there are plenty of people out there and each person you meet has the potential to be more than "just friends"
2007-05-09 17:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by BOXERGRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) The guy will not date you if he is only interested in having sex with you. The guy will date you if he is interested in getting to know you and genuinely likes you.
2) Of course you will get a boyfriend in college. If not, you will find one after college. Join clubs and participate in things that interest you so you can find guys who are interested in the same things.
3) The relationship in elem entry school was probably meaningless. If it gives you more confidence to say you had a boyfriend, then say it! Just remember, just because a guy likes you doesn't mean you should date him. Make sure the person you date is interesting, respectful and trustworthy. Most importantly make sure he is someone worth liking!!
2007-05-09 17:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by LJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Maybe but they're just immature if they don't want to date you. But don't be so eager to date the first guy that turns your way b/c some guys will look at that as a an opportunity. They might think that you would be more willing to have sex with them to keep them. Guys will also threaten to leave you if you take too long to have sex with them. But let them leave because they don't like you for you if they are willing to leave you for your peersonal aagenda,beliefs, or morals.
2. No.
3.No. None of that counts unless you were way too old to be in elementary school.
2007-05-09 17:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1, some people do like someone who is inexperienced, not necessarily for that reason, but because they dont have to worry about a past,
2. yes you can get a boyfriend easily, it doesn't matter if you never had before
3 no it doesn't count, unless of course you had sick twisted child relationship, which it certainly doesn't sound like you did
2007-05-09 17:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by brett v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.)No 2.)No 3.)No
2007-05-09 17:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by Lev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) well the person is not in the dating mood.
2) well that would mean that persion dose not have time for boyfriends or girl friends
3)not relly.
2007-05-09 17:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) It shouldn't matter what that other person thinks.
2.) Yes you will get a boyfriend.
3.) It depended it you loved him or her.
Hope it helped!!
2007-05-09 17:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by James M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) NOT IF HE REALLY LIKES AND CARES ABOUT YOU
2) NOT NECESSARILY
3) NO
2007-05-09 17:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by †If he only knew† 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋