To the ladies! Sexy notes to act out...?

Question

To spice up sex life my girlfriend came up with this idea that we wrote down 4 things that we would like to act out on 4 small paper notes and put in a jar (4 for her & 4 for me). Then once a week we take one and surprise the other with that sexy treat. I thought it was a great idea but I have a hard time to figure out wich 4 notes to put in the jar. Out of 7 things I would like some ladies to pick the 4 that sounds best to you and comment if I should rewrite in any way. I dont want her to feel silly or freak her out.

1 Opening the door dressed in hot lingerie and heels then seducing me

2 Take me by surprise, opening my jeans and give me a bj right on the spot

3 Blindfold me, tie me up and do whatever she likes

4 Surprise me in bed wearing nothing but her high heel boots and a wicked smile

5 Striptease for me

6 Handcuff my hands behind me and then use me as her sex slave

7 Jump in the shower with me and use the soap me in, one place more than others

Thanks

Answer 1

Wow all of those sound nice. Just on 5. don't use "striptease" use something like "take you clothing off and dance sexually." and in 7. don't use "Jump" use "walk in". You two are cute. Have fun! Oh ya, and put in all Seven without her knowing she will laugh when she figures out she has treated you to more than four.

Answer 2

1. Take me by surprise, opening my jeans and give me a bj right on the spot

2. Blindfold me, tie me up and do whatever she likes

3. Surprise me in bed wearing nothing but her high heel boots and a wicked smile

4. Jump in the shower with me and use the soap me in, one place more than others


These four are excellent. I would do them to my boyfriend.

Answer 3

I would say 1, 4, 3, 7

Answer 4

4, 3, 1, 5

Answer 5

Numbers 3 and 6 are very similar so you can probably combine them or drop one to bring your options down to six. My only other comment is that if you have nice sheets, number 4 might be a bit rough on them, especially if she ever wears the boots any place other than bed...

Answer 6

Why don't you ask her to up the ante to 7 entries, since you came up with 3 extra. I would think that would be the whole point.

Or write down your suggestions on 7 pieces of paper. Fold them up and throw 4 in the pot. (It'll be a surprise.) then the 3 left over, reverse and do it for her......

the idea is to play, so, dear, be creative and play......

Answer 7

3 & 6 are very similar so maybe you can combine them a bit. They all sound great and if I drew them from a bowl I would not be offened or freaked out at all. These are all pretty tasteful & think that you guys are on the right track to a long and healthy relationship.

Answer 8

(Yes, I know I am not a girl, but I just wanted to say -- good choices, sexy, yet fairly safe (that is, stuff that "most people" would like...) none of them sounds freaky or silly to me, although I wouldn't go for the high heeled boots one...)
In addition, No. 7 doesn't make much sense "and use the soap me in..."
I would rephrase to "Jump in the shower with me and lather me up, especially in one special place."

Answer 9

Have her striptease for you. Get her carmen electras aerobic striptease. It's not just a great workout but an awesome strip tease she could do for you.

also, i guess you could say.. roleplaying.
have her dressed up as a sexy schoool girl.. etc.

or playing with toys. works good.
porn works good too.

Answer 10

#a million,#2,#4 and #7 they are no longer too loopy yet very seductive and spontaneous. those create a memorable 2d which you will continuously submit to in suggestions. as nicely the different 3 you could continuously do later.