he stalks me and is really weird. he likes me because im really nice to him and im also his size and im also very smart like him. i think im his dream girl but i dont wanna go out with him. any ideas on how to diss him? i think he needs a speed slap because i dont want him to like me anymore.
help!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-09 09:51:32 · 20 answers · asked by pamela 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm honey i have SOOO BEEN THERE!!! *sigh* very recently 2 be very honest
umm just straight out tell him!!
don't be a B*tch about it either just tell him you rn't intrested and if that doesn't work try to still be his friend but just like show no intrest in him in any other way and show intrrest in other guys umm if it gets really bad then just tell him how weird it is nd how annoying or whatever they are being and yea.........
2007-05-09 10:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun the first thing you need to know is that you can't change how a person feels no matter how much you want to. You can't make him not like you anymore. Even if you stopped being nice or all the things he likes about you if he's that into you he will only remind himself of who he knows you really are and it won't matter to him how you change now.
My advice for you is to be innocently honest. Simply let him know just what you told us here. Tell him that it's great to know someone who has the same qualities as you do. That It's nice to have a friend that can talk about stuff(fill in with whatever you two have in common) and thank him for being a great study buddy when most guys would just try to flirt. Tell him that it's nice to just have guy friends for a change.
Guys will generally freak at the friend word anyway but the fact that you compliment him and let him know your position at the same time should make things a bit more comfortable.
2007-05-09 17:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him once that you are not interested in that way. If it continues, stop being nice... if then the stalking still continues, report it.
BUT, if you are being nice to him and hanging out, be aware you may be giving him mixed signals whether you mean to or not.
Never can be too careful, there are alot of crazy people in this world. Just make sure he knows how you feel and then take the steps to get him out of your life, if thats what you want.
2007-05-09 16:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't advance then just leave him be. Stalkers are annoying sure, but they're just that and nothing more. If he makes moves on you then you might have to do something (i.e. a kick in the groin) to make him stop. If it's really bugging you then tell him you're not interested several times. If he still persists, then move on to the kick in the groin. He won't easily forgive you of that.
2007-05-09 16:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by James Bond Chickz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind girl, you give him the come on then try to shove him away. it's always with you girls, and I quote " THREES THIS GUY' I must answer at least 20 or so of this type of question. it's ether " THERE'S THIS GIRL'[ OR TH ER'S THIS CUTE GUY" and then it's BUT i don't want him?her near me as they make me feel uncomfortable. and the next thing you know is Ho I dated the boy that was following me and he's the most wonderful guy I have ever dated. and it happens time and time again. So your not on your own get a grip woman. Sorry to be so blunt but that's exactly how it is honest.
AGONY UNCLE
2007-05-09 17:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by coofooman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had someone like that a few years ago (he found out my s/n, cell number, address, called me consistently to find out where I was, etc).. All I had to do was show up somewhere I knew he would be with my one friend (who I assumed he thought was my b/f) and I haven't heard from him since... So maybe you should get someone to act like they are your boyfriend and pretty much put on a show.
Or you could just try the typical approach of saying, I don't like you.
2007-05-09 16:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by britnic7687 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him. Don't show any interest in him. He'll soon get tired of being ignored. No need for violence, though.
2007-05-09 16:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by Peaches 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Combine lola and peaches' advice.
2007-05-09 17:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by misleep1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow lol well just talk to him and tell him how you feel about him? not in a mean way though! it will hurt his feelings! :) just tell him to please leave you alone and eventually he will just dont pay no mind to him...
good luck
2007-05-09 16:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by VICKY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you want to be friends, and only friends.
2007-05-09 16:55:00 · answer #10 · answered by Dash 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋