Im with my dad or brother, and a beautiful woman passes us my dad stares at her and he says that's a very nice looking woman then stares at me and says what do u think? I get grosed out by it, My brother does the same thing with me. Its like they want to share this woman with me with there eyes. It's like to me a father and son orgey,,,,freakes me out.
2007-05-09 09:31:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
its like in my head what do u want me to do u stare at her breasts and I stare at her face, we will kiss them with our thoughts....grosess me out.
2007-05-09 09:33:58 · update #1
it would weird me out too for my parents to say something like that to me
2007-05-09 09:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by E.T.01 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh man am I ever with Moon Unit on this.
There is so little beauty in the world, appreciate what you find. Just because your father and brother admire the beautiful women doesn't mean they would shag them in front of you, or even behind your back.
If you never admire the physique of muscular men, that is just your own private loss. I don't know how old you are, perhaps some day you will better learn to appreciate fine art and sculptured physiques.
Ok, if he says, "check out the rack on that babe," or does cat calls, or drools on himself--yes, that is being a bit obnoxious. If a woman doesn't like being quietly appreciated, why does she dress up? Is that just for one person? Whenever I dress up, I hope everyone appreciates the effort I took. Otherwise, it is wasted. Why bother?
2007-05-09 20:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't get disgusted. In fact, I always point the gorgeous women out to my husband! Mainly because I want him to know that I know what he's looking at lol. But, hey, beauty should be appreciated.
edit: first answer...."control his passions"?? Admiring beauty is not quite the same thing as having an orgy! How did we get to be so many on this planet when there are so many prudes?
2007-05-09 16:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like they're looking for a sense of bonding and an affirmation of your (or their own) heterosexuality.
Have you been distant to them? It may be an offered hand of friendship from people who don't know how to relate any other way.
It may be that they're looking for an accomplice in their unwholesome lust, as you suggest- but that seems like a rather base and simple answer. There may be quite a bit more to it than that.
2007-05-09 16:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by B SIDE 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My dad taught me to be a man like that. He respected women, but if they were beautiful, he would ask me. I have a bad feeling about this whole question. I will pray for you.
2007-05-09 16:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by great gig in the sky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can see where it would make you uncomfortable. However, it is hardly something to demonize your father over, like several of the other answerers have done.
2007-05-09 16:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by I'm Still Here 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont really get disgusted by it but I'm in a totally situation than you are! Just tell them to stop!
2007-05-09 16:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by shelbyroxhardcore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's wrong what your father and brother are doing.
A man should be able to control his passions and a responsible father should not encourage his son to lust after a woman.
The random woman who walks by a man does not belong to that man. She should not be used to give him pleasure. That is turning her into an object.
And what if she is another man's wife? That makes it even worse.
2007-05-09 16:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Veritas 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think that treating women as objects is a disgusting practice,,,
2007-05-09 16:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by Shinkirou Hasukage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this is inappropriate behavior, especially for a father to model for his sons.
2007-05-09 16:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by redeemed 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋