My boyfriend and I have been together for a year I have 2 boys and he also has kids I have met his youngest child which is 3 but never met his other kids which are 8, and 7. He dont offer to take me anywhere and he never goes out with me and my kids I never really met his family and I think he is ashamed or hiding something and I got pregnant in September and I was going to have a abortion at first but I changed my mind and he dont want another child therefore my baby is really going to be fatherless because he said he cant afford to take care of another child can you tell me what you think of this situation plus I told him to move but he is still living in my house because he havent found a place to stay yet and my baby is due next month what should I do?
2007-05-09 07:31:05 · 12 answers · asked by choppa g 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Counseling sounds good, but it may be too far gone for that. If he didn't want another child (and can't afford one), he should have thought of that before he got himself into this situation. He still owes it to you and the child (more importantly) to help out. Sounds like he has his cake and is eating it too. If you want him out, make him get out...finding a new place is his problem.
2007-05-09 07:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of 4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls hide things like that so that it's not too obvious she likes you because she's afraid your gonna think she's a freak or something. There's a girl I know who likes this guy and tells everyone that "OMG he looks so HOT today" but not tell him. If a girl likes you they just keep looking at you and if you look at her she quickly turns away and you can tell that she's afraid that you think she's weird or has problems. She'll look at you at the sorner of her eye to see if you are looking at her. Sometimes she'll play with her hair when she's around you or try to walk by you looking cute to get you to notice her. Sometimes, if she's not shy, she'll start up a conversation or tease you about something. If they act real nice to you that should give you a clue that she likes you. That sort of stuff. Hope I Helped.
2016-05-19 00:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what way you can legally put him out and get that ball rolling . Make sure you have someone there as your support. Pack up his things, change the locks and put his sorry behind out. You may have to move, in order to keep you sanity. I have a friend that is the same situation and she and her children just had to pack up and relocate cause her ex kept breaking in the house and would be there whenever she came back home.
Good Luck!!
2007-05-09 07:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO father is better than a DEADBEAT one. get this man evicted out of your home. the state can help you a lot as a single mother and you can contact your attorney general's office to find out about child support. it sounds like you should have gotten rid of him before now. if nothing else, call the police on him to get him out.
2007-05-09 07:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack for him and have it waiting on the doorstep, after you've changed the locks!
if he didnt want to be a new daddy he should of thought about that before beginnning a new relationship and honey it sounds to me like he is nt really all that anyway......take charge and dont settle, something better will always come along because i know that he is not that one person that god made especially for you.....
2007-05-09 07:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Christi Webb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I am glad you choose against abortion.
If he is still there and you want him out, call the cops....
Take him to court and make him pay, I hate people like that. He helped make the baby, he can help pay for it. If he chooses to have no part of that baby, its his lose, but he should still have to help take care of it.
2007-05-09 07:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by yetti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oy. I'm sorry.
Can you two go to counseling? Sounds like the two of you are overwhelmed with kids.
2007-05-09 07:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by purplebinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be sweet I know it is very hard right now. If he doesn't come around to your good side. Then consider making him jealous, if that doesn't work you have nothing to work with.
Get out of the relationship.
2007-05-09 07:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
file paper work with the courts to have him legally evicted, then file for child support
2007-05-09 07:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by lisamarie7901 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some couples counseling
2007-05-09 07:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by melissa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋