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I am a 17 year old female with a business and a school life that I am trying to balence all at once. BUT I think my boyfriend is trying to tell me that I am doing way too much at once but he has a lot on his plate. I need some skills from everyone to find out if he is "in it to win it or just trying to get me in the sach." I need your opinions to find out what I should do to find out if he really want to be with me or have sex with me to lose his viginity. He is only 18 is this a bad thing if he wants to be with me for a booty call here and there. How can i really tell if he is there for me and not just my body . I am not going to be with someone who is a jerk all the time. I need help from both men and women of any age race or anything like that. Just please help me i need it?

2007-05-09 05:57:08 · 4 answers · asked by loverslane312 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

4 answers

John D is right. Don't have sex, and see what happens. Problem solved.

2007-05-09 06:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0 0

Pardon me, but why are you casting the whole issue in the light of what your bf wants? Why are you even debating as to whether he is in it for the long term or for the sake of jumping into bed with you? Don't YOU matter even in your estimation? What do you want? How about you wanting sex or not wanting it? How about you wanting to determine the terms of endearment-whether you want him or his body? Why do you have to even considering offering sex in exchange for a longer term commitment? Why are YOU and YOUR wants not at the center of your calculations at least. If HE loves you let him demonstrate his commitment.

2007-05-09 06:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by deepend 4 · 0 0

you are 17 years old and he is 18. You should do whats right for you. How you feel about all this. Its your body and your life. Don't ruin it. You need to talk to him about this and get this cleared out right away.

2007-05-09 06:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by busterdogrl 2 · 0 0

Don't give him sex! If he stays/goes you have your answer!

2007-05-09 06:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by John D 1 · 1 0

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