Ok im going round my boyfriends house tomorrow and we will be alone togethor all night i think we will probably end up having sex should i take a condom with me and how do we do it! im a virgin and i dont know what to do at all help !
2007-05-09 05:55:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok girl how old r u first of all ?
If ur 13 then chances are he will ditch u for some other girl later on in the future and you will regret
also getting preganant that is a huge risk if u are going to do it use a condom
but make sure you really trust this guy and have a long talk before having sex because if he ditches you for another girl you will feel used and you will really regret it
think before you do it
2007-05-09 06:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jade L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
(1) Only "do it" if you're emotionally, physically, and spiritually ready to. I'm not going to say that the time isn't right (because only you can know that), but if you're unsure, don't. Just because you're alone for a night doesn't mean that this "has" to be the night. It's not an inevitable conclusion.
(2) Even if you think there's a 2% chance of it happening, yes, take a condom. And it should be new, unopened, and not expired. ALso, since your guy may or may not know how to put one on, learn about the different kinds, and how to correctly put it on. (Most condom failures occur because of improper application.)
Here are a few links:
http://www.avert.org/teencondoms.htm
http://www.ripnroll.com/proper.htm
(3) As far as what to do, it's okay. If your BF is experienced, he'll know what to do. If not, that's all right to. Basically, it's just foreplay until you are well lubricated and his penis is erect. usually, for the first tiem, the guy is on top and guides his penis in. You may have to help him with your hands (my fiance still does). It may hurt for you, just tell him to go slow to get used to the sensation. He may have to push relatively hard to get past your hymen if it is still intact and it's particularly strong.
And then you rock, gyrate, or thrust. There are millions of variations. Don't worry about it. It will naturally happen.
2007-05-09 06:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young. I'm sure once you do it things will be weird between you, then you'll end up single. He'll tell his friends and word with get around that you are easy. Wait until you are like 18 or older. I didn't even know much about anything at 13. If he dumps you because you won't do it, then you are better off without him. There are so many things that can happen if you take this step. Pregnancy, STDs, etc. It's a lot to deal with at your age.
2007-05-09 06:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seriously think about it. You are about to give a part of yourself away to this one person. It is something you will NEVER get back. So many people (especially girls) regret their first time. THINK IT THROUGH with a clear head. If your virginity is of any importance to you, you owe it to yourself to wait for the man you're going to marry. If you give it away to another, you will regret it when it comes time for you to marry...I know I do. If you think it through and decide you are going to go ahead and go through with it, DEFINITLY take a condom. Protection is what is most important when deciding to have sex. Also, think about this...if you're responsible enough to have sex, you have to be responsible enough to deal with the consequences. Good luck!
2007-05-09 06:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!
I don't care if you "Love" eachother.
Most likely he will lose respect for you and only treat you
as an object. Every girl is just a game. Once they get in your pants, you are no longer attractive, you are attainable.
Just wait!
Also, think about this: Virgins can have sex anytime, but those who aren't will never, Ever be able to be a virgin.
2007-05-09 06:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would suggest that you wait!!! Believe me, you'll be glad later that you did.
BUT if you are absolutely going to do this, please use a condom (don't be an idiot) there is too much out there that is too easy to catch that can disrupt your life forever. be smart about it.
sex is a beautiful thing, with the right person and the right feelings.
2007-05-09 06:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by jd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, bring a condom and as far as the rest ... you'll figure out what to do ... it's not that complicated.
2007-05-09 06:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by bitchlips411 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you can yes take a condom.. if you must have sex for the first time.. be sure your ready.... i suggest you be on top and take your time.. i m for more in detail...
2007-05-09 06:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait! unless there is NO doubt in your mind. once you have sex, you become so attached that even the thought of them leaving hurts you. after you have sex, its like you loose a piece of yourself and if your parnter leaves you, for the REST OF YOUR LIFE, youll feel something missing.
2007-05-09 06:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by Juan 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
take a condom
2007-05-09 06:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋