who do u do about a female who will not date younger guys cuz u feels as though they a immuture?

Question

she is 18 i am 19 but she wants to date 20 and up it was not all ways like that she had no problem date the younger ones but everytime she does she feels as though they are 2 immuture hint cheating or playing games what do i do

Answer 1

For one you are older than her and second you have to prove to her that just because the other young fools cheated and played games, doesnt mean you are the same. And dont just be saying it to be saying. You really have to mean it and stick by it

Answer 2

What women are referring to is the illusion of maturity brought about by our society. Because it is expected that women will behave a certain way as opposed to how men will behave, women subconsciously act more mature than they really are. They'll act completely differently alone with their friends than they will in public in most cases.

Men don't have the same social pressure to act mature that women have, hence why they don't act mature. But the key word is act.

Many women are convinced that they actually are more mature, but its really not the case, and is in fact a case of sexism.

However, it is natural for women to be attracted to older men and men to be attracted to younger women, not because of "maturity" but because of the way the mating instinct works; younger women are (to a point) more fertile and are capable of producing more children. Older men are generally more able to provide for the woman. These are subconscious things; it doesn't mean every guy is looking to have kids or every woman is looking for a baby daddy.

Answer 3

Perhaps she really wants to date a man who is more mature in the hopes they will take the time to use proper grammar and spelling? Just a thought. If you're unwilling to take the time to write out "you" and "because" and "immature", and use upper case letters at the start of a sentence, maybe she feels you would not take the time and energy required to be in a relationship.

Good luck. Glad you're sticking with women of legal age at least.

Answer 4

Well most guys just playing games wit us like we are toys and we don't need that **** in are lifes but the younger ones do it more thats why she wants an older one she is very smart to date a older one thow you are cutie dud hit me some time lol

Answer 5

Show her how mature you can be ... do you have job ... do have a car ... do you live at home ... do you treat women with respect ... do you know how to write a check ... can you have a conversation with her other than the color of your new Air Force Ones ... she wants intelligence, maturity and loyalty ... those all come with age ... be respectful and work hard for what you want and she'll come around ... be a good friend first ... good luck ... !

Answer 6

Don't waste your time. If she says she is not interested in someone your age then move on. When I was her age guys my age were also immature for me. Just the way it is. I guess that is why you seen most 19 year old guys with high school girls.

Answer 7

Show her differently, even if you have to be friends first. As a girl, I can tell you that immaturity is a turn-off. If you do act as trifeling as other guys these days, then move along cuz I'm on her side.

Answer 8

Prove her wrong. Let her see what kind of man you are. After a while, she may reconsider dating you, but be patient. Do not come off as desperate, whiny, etc, that will kill your chances. Patience with confidence and maturity will have her reconsider.

Answer 9

Stay around and prove to her that you are not going to be playing games or cheating or acting stupid and maybe eventually she will feel as though you are someone she could date.

Answer 10

u guys/dolls are immature, your only 18-20 yrs old. just wait till u grow up. a mature women is 40+ yrs old. man are immature the rest of their life. LOL.....