My boyfriend is starting to be best mates wit my best mate, im not sure if it'll turn into more, he's more confortable with her, and he can talk to her more than he can with me, and generally really like eachother!
I was told to maybe do stuff to make me seem a bit more exciting and make him wanna be with me more...! How can i do this? Im going to the beach with him my best mate and a few others this weekend? Any ideas to turn him on and make him attracted to me more than going onto her? (which i think is going to happen!!)
2007-05-09 04:51:23 · 13 answers · asked by CompleteCreation90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldnt accept this behaviour from either your boyfriend or your mate. Neither one are being repectful of you. Your not the problem. They are.
2007-05-09 04:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some tips below but the important thing is, communication in a relationship. If you can't communicate and trust eachother enough to share your feelings, opinions and problems, then you can't support eachother and the relationship won't last long! Maybe you can start this talking thing by taking him for a walk, just talk about your relationship, remind him that he can trust you. Another way of letting him know that he can trust you is by you trusting him. If you have a problem, spill it to him.
1.) Where a sexy bikini
2.) Take him into the sea, and have a laugh. Splash him, jump on his back etc...go WILD!
3.) Be flirtacious
4.) Wow him with some cartwheels...don't fall on ya bum though hehe!
5.) Rub suntan lotion on his back, give him a nice massage.
6.) Play a trick on one of your friends, maybe put water down their top or something!
PS: Keep an eye on the both of them.
2007-05-09 12:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sahra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys think in there pants so, you have got him good start your intresting enough to keep him first you have to get a nice bikini the perfect bikini get it for you right body shape, black is always good make your self look like a bronzed beach babe dont overload with make up and then at for night time buy some really nice underwear something sexy but not to extravagant a matching set, but tingle condoms champagne strawberries whipped cream maybe even handcuffs completely take control without turning into psyco b'''h, and with that you should be able to keep him intrested let your body work for you and have loads of fun i mean act like wow spectacular best nite of your life he has to love noise!! he knows he is doing something right then
2007-05-09 12:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly think that these two will develop into something more than friends then you're right, you do have to do something. But you don't have to go all out to make yourself look exciting. All you have to do is give both of them a stern warning(without looking like a psycho)and if you think something is still going to happen then I suggest you ditch both of them.
2007-05-09 12:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by CUTEY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is looking and sniffing round your best mate in a "I want her way" you are better of out of there he isnt right for you. I would suggest you talk to him and find out how things stand, you may be miss reading the signs.
Dont lower yourself to playing games with him.... and trying to compete with your mate... just be yourself, and if he cant see you for who you are forget about him and save your self some heart ache in the future.
2007-05-09 12:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by Maria S © 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, that can't be nice for you. Firstly, don't change! You should never try to be something to make someone else happy. Talk to your boyfriend and your friend, separately. Be honest. If they know what you're thinking then should respect that and be aware of how you're feeling next time. If things don't change then you need to decide if you can be relaxed with their relationship. Don't worry unnecessarily, it may all be in your head. Just talk to them and you'll feel better.
BE YOURSELF AND YOU'LL ALWAYS FIND HAPPINESS xx
2007-05-09 12:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by earthaintdying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 Dump him
2 See if it affects him. If not, you've lost nothing. If it does, play harder to get & make yourself more attractive in ways that he would like, so that he feels that he is missing something.
3 If he takes the bait, make sure he understands that its an exclusive deal
2007-05-10 01:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by Canute 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you dress sexily and stay close to him. Make sure you make plenty of eye contact, smile at him all the time and rub yourself against him suggestively. He'll get the message.
2007-05-09 12:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your on the beach, try to wrestle with a wasp or cover yourself in bacon rind and see what bites!
2007-05-09 11:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to actually BE exciting rather than SEEM exciting. No one likes a girl that fronts.
2007-05-09 12:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋