Men don't seem to have feelings, so it's ok to treat them like crap, right?
2007-05-09 04:26:43 · 22 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it is not okay.
People [and that includes both men and women] need to be treated with respect and kindness. If somebody treats you like a "thing" or an "object", they are not worthy of you. If people do not respect you, stay away from them. There are enough really nice people out there who would be delighted to be with you.
Stay away from people who radiate negative energy. That kind of negative energy drains the goodness in you and ruins your day.
Don't lower yourself to the level of somebody who treats you like dirt. You are a good person. Just walk away. Dump his file, he ain't worth it.
2007-05-09 10:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mark 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he treats you like dirt, treat him the same way. However, if he is loving, kind, and sweet, you treat him in kind.
I could never treat my husband like dirt because he always treats me like a queen. I know, Awwwwwwwwwwwwwww.
Anyway, take your cue from each man individually. How you are treated by them is how you should treat them.
Enjoy your day!
2007-05-09 14:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sr. Mary Holywater 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find that when guys like me, I can treat them like dirt and they will still like me. However, after awhile, they stop liking me and realize its not worth it. At that point, I wish I didn't treat them like dirt.
2007-05-10 20:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by pearlygaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a big NO! If someone either male or female does not treat you respectfully (and you act respectfully) then just turn around and walk away - no need to lower yourself to a disrespectful position in order to make a point that they probably won't get anyway. You should have more class than that. Just shake their dust off your sandals, don't think twice and head in another direction.
2007-05-09 11:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by cleesurrey 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
sure, if men can treat women as if they are nothing but dirt...
most men are pigs... no argument there, but there are quite a few women out there that are way messed up also.
treat someone as you wish to be treated.
2007-05-09 11:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by bilko_ca 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ummm, no. Just because the way society is today when we were raised watching TV and what-not and we basically learned NOT to show our feelings doesn't mean we don't have them. We do have feelings but as I said we were basically raised and learned not to express them. If you want a guy to show his feelings you have to get him to really trust you before he feels comfortable enough to show you what he "isn't supossed to show anyone."
So, don't treat men as dirt because whether or not they express their feelings doesn't mean that they don't have them. Our feelings are still able to be hurt as well.
2007-05-09 11:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by nobody045 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I recently asked a question in intention to make a joke (which I have seen in a newspaper) - "Why did we invent women?" and I was eaten alive by answers, telling me I was gay, a dic*khead 'get a life, troll!', 'if it wasn't for us women you ain't getting any', 'you're a sexist, buddy' and so on. Now you ask is it ok to treat men like dirt?! And now you are getting POSITIVE answers from female answerers?!
Well, screw you, bit^ch! I hope you die and rot in hell! Fuc*k you!
2007-05-09 11:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by HarrisonZ 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Only if they treat you like crap.
2007-05-09 11:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by nicole 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, Men do have feelings, and I treat my boyfriend, with love and respect..And he does the same to me
2007-05-09 12:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's not OK to treat anybody like that. Everybody has feelings whether they show it or not.
2007-05-09 11:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by kj 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋