Have you ever waited for something that never came?

Question

have you ever waited for something that never came?

and a gut feeling telling you it will never come, but reason tells you it will come?

How did you cope with it when it really did not come?

Answer 1

Yes, I have.
I basically learned to accept that it was not going to come/happen.
And glad that I did. Nothing worse than waiting for things that will never happen.
Just move on. Distance yourself from the situation and get out there.
Good luck. :)

Answer 2

Yes. Waited for a job for which I was interviewed and had hope. Coped by always assuring myself that I was qualified for it and that sometime the Lord will make it possible.

Answer 3

I'm going through that right now in a sense. Ok this is going to sound horrible but I really liek this guy except he has a g/f. He kind of forgot to mention it to me when we first started talking and I ended up getting to no him and ended up likeing him so much that when he finally told me i didn't care.

He says he is going to break up with his g/f for me, I told him he shouldn't, but I no deep inside i want him to but his "girl" keeps crying out rape. personally i think if you get rapped 4 or 5 times in a row, no who did it, tell everyone but refuse to alert the authorities there is something really wierd with that situation

I dont think he rly is going to so I am just trying to foget about him

Answer 4

i waited for you to choose this as the best answer.
my gut feeling tells me it'll never come, but reason tells me that i probably will.
i'll cope with it by logging out.

Answer 5

In all seriousness, my girlfriend died a couple of years ago in a car crash. For weeks I could not believe what happened. I constantly kept on touching my cell phone, feeling that she would call me. It was hard, I cried, But well life goes on things are fine now. I visit her grave every week. place a rose, that's it. look at the things you have been through, and look at your present problem, this too shall pass.

Answer 6

Yes, I signed up for the Star Wars fan club 30 years ago and it never arrived!

Answer 7

yeah i always thought i was going to be a big star but i never had the time or money to make my dream a reality so i had to go on with my life even thought i was not happy with what i was doing but i feel that someday i will be a big star.

Answer 8

great question.. i feel this exact same way
you know i heard some B.S that said "good things come to those that wait" but you know what you cant wait but just do what you have to do because nobody is just going to throw it in your lap, thats is if you aint rich of course.......anyway hope you get some real good answers.....later

Answer 9

MOVE ON !!!!! Go to the next one. BUT DON'T MAKE the next one pay for u having waited for one that NEVER CAME.

Answer 10

A guy I dated used to have that problem. It was really tedious. I finally made him stop and get off of me because I was starting to chafe. Sometimes it helps if you just relax.