i am 511 175 and in good shape. my package is mediam, but when i get nervous i get really small, i may be nervous. will the girls be comparing me to the other guys. i here some of the guys that go there are really big. i am going with my gf and her sister.
2007-05-09 02:39:17 · 17 answers · asked by julian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any grrl who knows anything about the male physique knows that the size of the flaccid penis typically has NOTHING to do with it's size when erect (especially at the beach).
And by the way... people don't GAWK at each other on a nude beach. You'll find it's pretty much business as usual... beach business that is. That's the whole point... nudity is actually comfortable and LESS sexual for nudists. It's not for those with hang-ups or body-image issues!
Have fun!
2007-05-09 02:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kia A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah we compare guys in all aspects of what they look like, do they have a nice butt, are they cute, do they have a nice body, and if we can compare, we will compare the package to. But you guys do the same thing with us girls to. Its wired into us from prehistoric days to scope out each other in order to pick the best mate. Well, something like that so, go and have fun, and watch out for the ugly people. You may get blinded just by the sight. Must most importantly don't worry about what other people are comparing you to. Because if your girlfriend is satisfied with it, then that is all that should matter.
2007-05-09 02:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just like you will be comparing girls to other girls.... (am I right?) Don't be nervous though, have fun with it. I'm sure your girlfriends ALREADY seen it.... And if she is still with you after seeing it, then obviously she doesn't care, so why should you care. Do you know how many little guys are going to be there anyways? Enough for you not to worry. I'd wonder more about why your girlfriend is taking you to a nude beach with.... her sister?
2007-05-09 02:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by CaliGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard both sides of the argument and I have never been told I was small or anything stupid like that. Most women I know tell me that too big is just painful and it is more of a visual turn on. It is like a woman with a big chest, they are the same as small ones only the big one call more attention but function the same as the small ones. If your girl is looking at other willies then look at the nude honey's yourself, we are all different, at the end of the day your girl will be going home with you.
2007-05-09 02:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While some of the "comparing" may occur, you'll soon realize that it is a superficial fear. Most people don't judge solely on appearance. Its your attitude which will really matter.
If your girlfriend is OK with your size, then there's really no reason to worry anyway, right? Unless you're looking for other reasons?
Enjoy the day! Hope it works out well for you and you decide to go back again.
2007-05-09 13:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by Dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking only from what I have seen and heard Nudism is not about sexuality or voyeurism as much as it is about freedom and being comfortable with who you are and what you are naturally..Children that are raised in Nudist colonies or better yet the children of tribal people in tropical climates are accustomed to being nude because that is all they have known. These people are the freest people on the planet. They are free in the since that they are not confined by the rules and standards of a society that says what is totally natural is perverted and dirty. This is the freedom nudist try to achieve...
2016-05-18 23:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be careful that your g/f doesn't end up mad at you over her sister!
When you attended places such as these none of that matters, know one is concerned of size and no one will be checking out "your package" unless it is a sexual habitate. There is a difference and maybe you should find out, you may even run into a whole family there with their children! There are different kinds of nude resorts!
2007-05-09 02:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to each and their own...don't worry about it...you're willing to go to a nude beach with your g/f and her sis...that would be more awkward than the nude beach itself. You will see ppl of all ages and sizes...you just have to let it go, take it off and enjoy your day at the beach in the nude. And...as some men...women do judge and make comments just as much as you men do* You're at a nude beach....everything is right out there for everyone to see* Knock yourself out~and ENjoy*
2007-05-09 02:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do be happy about going to a nude beach. Watch out for the ugly stick.
2007-05-09 02:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by junkemail7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but yes i do compare b/c i like big ones but honestly "little" people are the most respectful. Other than that it really doesn't matter what others say your GF is fine with it!!!
2007-05-09 02:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋