Okay I have this great guy no he is not perfect and we have had a rocky past but hes amazing. now i am a worrier but i tend to over analyze things and recently i noticed there were missing condoms in my boyfriends room.
he leaves them out in the open right where anyone can see them and there were about 7-10 left now there are only 4 maybe. i dont count exact numbers (thats psycho) and they werent in their usual place they were completely gone so of course id notice! i asked him where they were hes like over here.. i asked him theres so many missing... not 1 or 2 which would be more descrete but like 5! he told me his friend took them. his friend does mooch a little bit he takes his car.. he has no job so i can see him seriously doing this. the kid goes away to school.
my mind is my worst enemy and it can be very controlling. but its bothering me and my friends say it shouldnt. i know cheaters do things secretely would they seriously take away 5 condoms? i need to stop worryin
2007-05-09 02:35:06 · 3 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been with this man for almost 2 years now. he wants to eventually get married.
i let everything bother me though and sometimes i do have reason. but thats what trust is right?
believing their answer?
2007-05-09 02:53:03 · update #1
I agree with the first person, when you gotta do it yourself you might use them to avoid mess, and that's embarrassing to talk about, and the other things is friends do take them from you. Don't over analize too much as it will kill you slowly, you will know if he likes you by the way he treats you
2007-05-09 02:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy I almost dated (different values and whatnot) used them when he went solo--he said there was less mess that way.
Also, mooching friends are always a possibility.
Are there other things that are making you wonder if he's cheating? When you say "rocky past", what do you mean? He could be telling the truth, but you'll probably want to keep an eye open for this just in case. At least until you know he's not lying to you or messing around. (And I don't mean watching his every move--just kind of pay attention a bit more to some of those things.)
2007-05-09 02:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by joy_like_a_fountain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do need to stop worrying ---- believe him --- trust him --- if you cant trust him the relationship is in trouble anyway --- best wishes
2007-05-09 02:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋