Can anyone give me some tips or a website that I can look at that has tips please. I'm sick of not enjoying sex like I want. Thanks people!
2007-05-09 02:18:48 · 16 answers · asked by Essie 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I don't have a medical problem. I am a little shy and inexperienced, thats why I want some tips. Plus I think I need someone with more experience maybe.
2007-05-09 02:38:41 · update #1
The other answerer is wrong... they are plenty of websites that explain the female orgasm and provide tips. clitical.com is one of them.
I agree, however, that the best way is to experiment. Set some quality time with yourself, take a mirror, and examine yourself. As you look, lightly touch and rub. You will find all kinds of sensations as you "familiarize yourself" with yourself. Find your spot and concentrate on it. Forget the quest... just enjoy the exploration! That's when it will happen. You can't WILL yourself into an orgasm.
You didn't say what all you've tried, or what experience you've had. So if this sounds patronizing, I apologize. Best of luck to you... all grrls need to find their way through this. It opens up a whole new world....
2007-05-09 02:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kia A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words- Silver Bullet
I have no trouble having an orgasm during sex, but this little baby comes in handy when I want to get off and my husband isn't around. You also need to try different positions, I orgasm better in certain positions than in others.
2007-05-09 09:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women need emotional stimulation to get into orgasm mode. (Not all though) So perhaps you need more conversation time to get in touch with your inner feelings rather than just having sex. Good luck and happy moaning
2007-05-09 09:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find your clitoris, wikipedia.org has graphic drawings and illustrations which will show you where it is
now, once you find it you need to just start rubbing the area, once you've produced a little pussyjuice, use it to lubricate your clitoris, continue rubbing the clitoris until is becomes swollen and engorged
now you will keep rubbing it until you just cant stand it anymore and you may even feel like you need to stop because your body cant take it, but just keep on doing it
sooner or later, you will stimulate it enough and your clit and in fact your whole p u s s y will contract and spasm, this is an orgasm
2007-05-09 09:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best way to experience is with herself. Play with yourself to find that spot. Once you know then you will be able do it when your having sex!!! It takes a lot of time and mind control!!!
2007-05-09 09:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you need to play 'phone book' and let you fingers do the walking. You might also try sitting in the bathtub and letting the warm water run on you. Also you might try having him be ultra aggressive. I know that works me up. Are you on any anti-depressants or other meds that might be hindering you?
2007-05-09 09:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Acid Rain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's all in the mind. it used to feel good for me but i would never orgasm. then my boyfriend told me to stop worrying about what he was doing (i told him to stop after a while because i thought he must have been getting tired after all that time trying) and stop trying to orgasm and to just relax and let my mind go and just concentrate on the feelings i was getting. as soon as i did that it happened. it's all about the mind to me.
2007-05-09 09:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by hopes&dreams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need to be more specific with your question are you not have an orgasm while have sex or during pleasuring yourself. Most when don't orgasm during sex. most women will only orgasm from clitoris stimulation.
2007-05-09 09:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by junkemail7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try getting some toys. and try them on yourself first, to see if you can give yourself the big O. if you can't it may be a medical problem and you might want to see a doctor
2007-05-09 09:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there arent websites that can help you
you need to become more in tune with what turns you on...
experiment
2007-05-09 09:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋