Life finally got me to the point where I do not want to live anymore. The last thing I want you to tell me is how beautiful this life is and how much it's worth living. I DON'T want ANY persuasion not to think of this. What I need from you is this: if I kill myself, my parents and siblings will be devastated. We all grew really close and it might be too much for them to handle, especially that all seems ok to them and there are no precursors. What can I do about this? I want to put and end to my life but I don't want to hurt my family. Is there a way around this? Thanks.
2007-05-08 20:59:13 · 17 answers · asked by Psychotic Clown 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
For those who recommended religion, I don't think Christianity is the answer. Instead of torturing an innocent man (Jesus) to death for whatever reasons, why not just relieve us of our pain and forgive us with the snap of a finger? For those who say this is selfish, how is it selfish when it's my own life I'm talking about? It's no one else's business. It's selfish on the part of OTHERS to ask me not to kill myself just so their feelings would be spared, ignoring my suffering. I'm not a teenager, btw, for those who asked.
2007-05-11 18:52:29 · update #1
well, it sounds like your a teenager. well, if your really serious bout this, wait for the next 10 years and try to farther yourself from your family, and then kill yourself... it makes you less guilty... i guess...
2007-05-08 21:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by a.pparently 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a point or stage, for everybody, where you feel like you can't handle it anymore. But if u want to commit suicide u have to think about ur family: how much will it cost them to bury u and how much it's going to hurt them.
But there's another solution for that. We all have problems, even us christians we do. No matter what circumstances u meet, God is always there. He will never fail u. U were created by Him, so He understands each and every problems and things we encounter. Jesus came and die for sins to save our lives so that whatever we come through He can be able to give us power to face & conquer those circumstances with His help.
Commiting suicide won't help 'cause that will lead u to hell. Jesus is the hope; He is the help of the helpless. Just try Him my brother and ur life will change and the devil will run away from you, 'cause it's him that causes u 2 think of killing urself.
Life is difficult I know, but with God all things are possible.
If u allow Him to take control of ur life, things will change automatically.
I'm not telling lies, I'm a true witness. I know what Gos has done to my life and He keeps on doing great things.
You're my brother so I won't let u die.
Go will surely bless u
God Bless
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2007-05-09 04:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mazonkana G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a great guy who had a full life ahead of him until his girl left him and he committed suicide. 10 yrs later, she is having a great life, but he is in the ground. Suicide sounds good at the time, but on the other side, life is good. Why do this when it doesn't pay anyone back for the hurt they've caused you...they go on living. Why would you want to hurt yourself to make someone else feel bad??? seems stupid to me.....depression is temporary and we are all there or close to it in our lives, but then we pick up and go on and life is good. and ps. having worked in a hospital, I have taken care of many who chose a method which mangled their body and then they have to live with a deformed face(gunshots that didn't work) etc. I gurantee that you will wish you had never done it..so I hope you figure that out before it's too late.
2007-05-09 04:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It would be too much for them to handle!! They will never recover and you would be putting them at risk. I know you don't want to hear it but these feelings pass. Get some help.
You have involved others by asking your question. I won't start telling you what my life is like but you would benefit from talking your issues through with a professional or taking some prescribed medication. Suicide is giving up. It may not seem that there is a solution to your problems but for the sake of your family you owe it them and to yourself to deal with things in a positive way. Life sucks for many people you have work through the problems. best wishes to you
2007-05-09 04:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by flip 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I just went through the same thing and realized how wrong it is. Life can suck sometimes, I know, but there are a lot of things that you probably want to experience. It's good that you feel that you don't want to hurt your family. There is no way to avoid doing that if you did end up commiting suicide. Hopefully that worry will force you to get to the point that I have. I now realize what a great mistake it would have been, no matter how much I wanted to at the time.
2007-05-09 04:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by Shawn L 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Go missing instead or fake a accident. Might I suggest taking a large life insurance policy out before hand. Your best choice would be an ocean or a large river that dumps into a ocean. You could either crash a car into the river or charter a boat or something. Make sure to leave some blood or a clump of hair with skintags for identification. Your parents will always have hope and thats the greatest thing in life.
2007-05-09 04:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't think there is any way to not hurt your family. They love you and it would be hard for them to deal with. They will be wondering what it is they did wrong, were there any signs they missed, was there anything they could have done to help you.... and a million other things will run through their heads. I'm not going to tell you life is a bed of roses...cause it isn't. I know it can be hard to take.... but please look at all the things you will be missing if you take your life now. Things like watching nieces and nephews growing up, weddings and birthdays.... for the rest of your family, they can't imagine you not being there for those things. I know there is an ultimate purpose to your life even though you don't see it right now. I don't know what's going on in your life right now that it seems to be too much to handle... but I am willing to talk any time you'd like... just send me an email and I'll be happy to respond.
2007-05-09 04:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No. They will be hurt no matter what. A couple of questions. How do you think this will make it better? Do you believe there is life after death? What in this world do you think is different from the next? If anything it might be worse. What is so bad about life? I am not trying to be rude or preachy, just curious on your opinions. I like to hear different sides to stuff.
2007-05-09 04:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by pizzandgrill 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way around that... And I know you don't want to hear anything happy. However, I will say this... if you don't want to hurt them... you may not be ready for suicide. I know life is rough and sometimes I thought about the end... then I though about the one closet to me and how would it impact her life. And it mde me change my behavior and thought process...
I am not preaching or telling you what to do, just explaining a little situation I went through.
If you want to talk we can ht me up... Iam not going to try to talk you in or out aof anything.
2007-05-09 04:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by sweetdreams_0423 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
its not only you whos going through bad stuff in life. everyone comes to the point where it makes them devasted. but trying to suicide is a loser thing to do. i had lived a life where it came to the point that i dont want to take it anymore. but you know, only a loser would do that. only a loser would commit suicide, because they arent strong enough to go through some sh*t in their lives. i have gone through the roughest time of my life for 6 years, and almost every day in those 6 years i cry, EVERY DAY! but i lived through!!! i showed everyone i was strong enough to handle WHATEVER the problem is. because no problem is permanant. Ever!
if you dont feel sorry for yourself, atleast feel sorry for those people who loves you and how they HAVE to live through dealing with your decision. that, is called being "selfish".
2007-05-09 06:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you are right. Your family will suffer & hurt by your selfish action. Especially your parents who give you a life. hey, you owe them a life!
2007-05-09 04:04:16 · answer #11 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋