He shut his back door so hard I heard it along with him snapping the storm door shut. Am I being a baby, or should he have waited until I got in to my car before leaving me in the dark? My car was parked next to the road in front of his house.
2007-05-08 19:14:39 · 19 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I went back into the house and told him to &#*$& off.
2007-05-08 19:26:47 · update #1
How rude, he should have walk you to your car or stood in the door and watch until you got into your car.
2007-05-08 19:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by prcsdime 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he was having a bit of a hissy fit. Impolite at best, baby-ish at worst!
A polite person leaves the lights on for their guests to come and go, and if someone has manners and cares about others they will walk that person to their car and say good night, perhaps even ask the to return again soon.
Most would do this for a casual guest, let alone someone they actually know and like!
Perhaps Your boyfriend may not realise that he was being quite rude and uncaring in this behaviour?
2007-05-08 20:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bluewaterwoman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What was his impresion of YOU? If you made him mad or if for some reason you gave him the idea that you wanted to be a liberated woman then he does not have to walk you to your car. If you want full equality with men then don't cry when you are treated as one. However in a general sence he should have made sure you were safe and on your way before going inside and closing the door.
2007-05-08 19:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by are u crazy?...cuz i am not! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why did he shut the door so hard? did you guys get in a fight beforehand? i would assume so....if that is the case, and he usually watches you (or better yet, walks you) to your car, then i would just chalk it up to his being an a** in the middle of a fight...however, if this is norm with him, i would have a talk with him about this...tell him that you would like for him to walk you to your car, because it makes you feel safe...he may just have never looked at it this way, him being a guy and all and not worried about being by himself outside so much...otherwise, if he still wont walk you to your car, or at the VERY least watch you walk to your car, perhaps u need to find yourself a guy who will ;)
2007-05-09 02:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Cinna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plz understand that there may be conflits within u and the proper solution to it can be find out. Don't be panic and have some time to be pass. If he shows 1% of improvement that means he really cares about u and his anger is temporary.
I am sure that doing such a thing, he couldn't have a sound sleep at that night.
2007-05-08 20:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya i agree he should have walked you to the car or at least watched and waved
depends on the situation, he may have something on his mind so when he "shook" you off his thoughts raced back,
it could be something as simple as a strong draft.
if this is an isolated incident, just wave it off. If i continues, well.....just follow what just2more says (from the part starting with "If it bothers you..")
2007-05-08 20:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by lordfa9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should have made sure you got to your car safely. But sometimes guys don't think... they wouldn't make sure their guy buddies would get to their cars safely but girls usually look out for one another in those areas. Just let him know that's not how you wish for things to be and if he learns a lesson, good.. but if not maybe you are better off looking for someone that fits you better.
2007-05-08 20:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by 2007 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Coming from a guy, he should have waited. Unless the circumstances were bad when you left, even then, he should have waited. What I do with my Girlfriend when she leaves, I wait till she is out of sight before I go back in. Call him and see what he tells you. Tell him how it made you feel.
2007-05-08 19:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by Luis L 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I definitely think that he should have at least watched you get in your car. Even better, he should be walking you to your car. I'm sure he doesn't mean anything by it. He is home, somewhere he considers to be safe for him. If it bothers you, just tell him that sometimes you feel nervous walking out to your car at night and could he please either walk you out there, or at least watch for you to get into your car safely. I'm sure he'd be happy to oblige. And if he's not...Move on!!!
2007-05-08 19:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by just2more 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion he should have walked you out to your car. no you're not being baby, but evidently you must have not been that scared at 12:45 am or you would have ask him to wait till you got in your car. when you walked out to your car by your self and then back up to his door by yourself , after you told him off did you stay or did you walk back out to your car by yourself? the first incident might have been bad manners on his part, but if you came back up to my door and told me off you would definitely would be walking out the door and back to your car by yourself for the last time. when you got home did someone come out to get you and walk you inside ?
2007-05-08 23:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋