i just had great sex with my boyfriend and i even climaxed...i do have orgasms but am embarrassed to let them out aloud...i hold them in and make them silent..my boyfriend notices i guess because he said to me dont be afraid to moan!! im like hahaha but i still hold it in...i want to let them out because i think they will feel even better..wat do i do? do other girls have this problem? how can i fix it and not be shy?
2007-05-08 16:28:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's right, you really need to let it out. your orgasms will be even MORE enjoyable if you let it out.
(unless you're having sex at home and don't want to wake your parents)
but why is this a sex emergency??? ;D
2007-05-08 16:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by mesquitemachine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to do the same thing, cuz I was embarrassed at how into it I got. But, from my experience, guys dig it and it turns them on even more to be able to hear how turned on you are. And yeah, it feels better cuz you're not focusing on what noise you are or are not making if you just let go. You'll be able to focus on all the amazing feelings and have an out of this world climax. I close my eyes a lot, so then I'm totally tuned into my body and what I'm feeling, and I don't worry about if he's watching me or what sounds I'm making. Good luck :)
2007-05-08 23:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by melissa_53105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. He's going to love it, and so are you, so stop holding it in. Don't waste time talking about it either, as talking about it never solved anything. Just do what feels good, and you will both be happier. As a matter of fact, why don't you talk dirty while your at it? I'm suspecting that if you where with a guy who was more vocal during sex, it would help you to respond in kind, so perhaps it is a little of an issue with him as well. But, you picked him, so you may have to make the move first.
2007-05-08 23:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way- moaning is your communication to him to let him know that what he is doing is right. He is probably unsure of himself if the sex between you is new and you would be doing both of you a huge favor, since he obviously cares about hearing the "praise". If you aren't comfortable with it now, it should come with time, once you are more comfortable with each other.
2007-05-08 23:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting yourself go is part of the climax. I think you want to scream and you think too much. Stay with your body the whole time. When my ex would stay with me, she let go and it was a new experience and it allowed us to venture into the realm of multiple orgasms. Lots of moaning, unbridled passion and tsunami like waves of emotion...Don't be shy. Your b/f will love you more for it.
2007-05-08 23:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I aint a girl but in know that it does feel better when you let the scream. sound brings more pleasure when you are having sex. that is why moaning arrouses many guys. But yea dont be she he probably will like that you scream itll make him feel better about himself and feel more pleasure, Just let it out
2007-05-08 23:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by jason c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about closing you're eyes or you facing the bed.. Then you will not have to be looking at him when you let out the sounds... Or you can tell him to moan with you... That might kick it up another notch...
2007-05-08 23:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh, thats the funniest thing i think i heard all day. I mean you had sex with the guy, you would think that would be the most embarresing thing you could possiblly do with the guy. Unless his parents are home or something and then you started busting out, that wouldnt be so good.
O.o
2007-05-08 23:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so uncomfortable to have an orgasm in front of him then how are you comfortable with his penis inside of you? Just let it out, he will LOVE it if you moan and scream out in pleasure, trust me.
2007-05-08 23:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it, trust me it'll feel a whole lot better, and you guys might even climax together, which is the best! Nothing better than that!
2007-05-08 23:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋