We talk on and off...and we can stay on the phone and talk about anything forever....when we all go out he always flirts with me and even kissed me on Friday... he's never been considered a player so should I still just blow him off? Or try to talk him into something more?
2007-05-08 16:03:43 · 10 answers · asked by chica42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your were his girlfriend, would you want him flirting with someone else? I think he likes to keep a sure thing. Be careful.
2007-05-08 16:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by CUrias 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though he has never been considered a player he can still do it. I think you should just forget about him. there are two things that can be happening. First maybe he just thinks of you as a really good friend, many friends do treat each other like he treats you and maybe he is just naturally flirtatios. second he may like you buy really consider the fact that he has a girl friend. Not just the moral part of taking someones man but in the point of view that if he is doing this to her then he may do it to you to. I learned in my psycology class that it is very hard for people to change who they are or their tendencys without any pressure or help. So just keep it safe and let it go.
2007-05-08 16:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by jason c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you respect the relationship he has tell him straight (by the way you worded the question i would say yeah). Tell him not to play with you. Its either you or the girlfriend you cant have both so forget about it.
And besides even if you get with him you have to remember how he got you, while in a relationship with his girlfriend. If you can trust him then yeah.
But dont let him play with your feelings for nothing!
2007-05-08 16:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend, then you need to talk to him. Ask him if he likes you, would consider having a relationship, etc. Dont play games with him if he has a girlfriend. That just means drama and you'd be a home wrecker! If he wants to stay with his girlfriend, than that means you're not worth it.
2007-05-08 16:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by Det313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends, if u like him then u have to talk to him but u dont and u just want to be frenz then dont get to serious with him... Ask him why he kissed u and tell him how u really feel about the whole situation... Ask him if he likes u and tell him that u cant do anything with him till he is single
2007-05-08 16:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. Take it from me, some guys just like to flirt for the fun of it. If he really likes you, he would break up with his girlfriend. Don't take another girl's man.
2007-05-08 16:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by tepid_shades 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BLOW HIM OFF BLOW HIM OFF BLOW HIM OFF!!!!!!! Seriously, i went through the exact same thing, and guess what? He did the same thing to me, he cheated on me, guys like that ARE NOT worth your time, trust me, no matter how good looking, NOT WORTH IT!
2007-05-08 16:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by sexychick0425 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Don't try to steal another girl's man, it's bad karma. And even if you don't believe in karma, it's wrong.
2007-05-08 16:07:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious he really likes you. It's okay to start dating him as long as you remember one thing.........he cheated on her and there is a good chance he will do the same to you. As long as you are okay with that.......go for it!
2007-05-08 16:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your heart tell you
2007-05-08 16:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋