I'm so sorry for your loss, but know that there are many people, including me, who are no different than you are.
I was always a wreck when it was time to say good-bye to my beloved dogs and it was no different than losing a child. Before someone jumps down my throat tells me that there is a difference, I would like to add that I did lose a child several years ago, so know what it's like to lose both, and one doesn't hurt any less or any more than the other. It's still a huge loss as my dogs were part of my family, too.
No two people grief or handle death in the same way. You obviously have a very kind and loving heart. I know that this is going to be easy for me tell you, but I know it's not easy to do, but you have to try and remember the good times and the happy memories you shared with your dog. Liberty will live forever in your heart.
I'm adding a few links to several web sites that may help you in your grieving process, as well a couple of links where you can place a free memorial for your dog and hope that they will give you some comfort during this difficult time.
Again, I'm really sorry and I'm sending my sincere condolences.
Rest in Peace Sweet Liberty.
2007-05-08 16:07:26
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answered by HDB 7
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I am just like you. Most people I know don't give two craps about animals...I love them to the bottom of my heart and always spend a week or two mourning over a family member loss, pet or not.
I don't know why some people are like that. I guess it is just how they are. They have a right to act a certain way. Maybe they are sad on the inside, and being brave so you will be brave as well. Never believe how people are on the outside. I usually hide in tears when I am sad, but on the inside, I am crying hysterically.
If you are that concerned, devastated, etc. about the loss of Liberty, then talk to your parents about it. It may seem like they don't understand but they ARE your parents, and I am sure they can explain everything to you.
Good luck, and I am sorry to hear of your loss.
May Liberty rest in peace for eternity.
Amen.
<3
2007-05-08 15:35:51
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answered by funkypigeonn 1
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There is no reason to be ashamed griefing over an animal.
My dear friend. I lost pets for many reasons, like illness or age related. It does not matter if it's been 20 days or 20 years. When I was 12 years old I lost my Wirehaired Dachshund. My mom had taken him for a walk on a cold winter day. I was at school. Our neighbor's troubled son was drunk at 2 PM, and after a fight with his parents decided to drive ... he lost control on the icy road and the car jumped the curb, missing my mom but killing my dog.
I am 38 years old now, and while I am writing this, tears run down my cheeks.
Also, don't be so hard on your parents. I am very, very, very sure they are crying.. behind closed doors. I think they are holding back to not upset you more.
I know they love you very much... andI am sure the loved Liberty very much, too.
I am very sorry about your loss.
Many BIG hugs from me to you.
2007-05-15 19:15:07
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answered by DogNanny911 2
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Some people become more attached to their pet than others.
Also the Christian belief is that animals do not have souls and therefore cease to exist after they die. One might t pray for a dead relative or friend and there by remember and the thought of some day being with them again tends to sooth the hurt. But people feel that after an animal dies it has served its purpose and they go on. Depending how attached you were to you pet will determine how long it will take to get over loosing the pet.
I have had many pets that have died and I felt upset and sad that I no longer had them. One suggestion might be to go out and get another pet you can love just as much. I like to believe that The Almighty God will allow us to see our pets in eternity. Hope you feel better soon.
2007-05-08 15:40:00
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answered by Ron 1
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I am so sorry for your lost, I do know how you feel I two am a animal lover. When one of my pets die and go to doggie heaven I have a very hard time dealing with it. the only thing that helps me is knowing they are going to doggie heaven with all my other little dogs. They are all running around the clouds haveing fun playing. I am a big time dog lover and I rescue them the ones who are the misfits or the ones who are unwanted by somebody. There are so many people who will get a puppie becuase all puppies are cute and very loverable. Then the new wears off and they might not be as cute as they were and the new owner thinks they get in the way or they are to much trouble to take care of then they are turned lose or sent to a shelter and most shelters life spam is not long because the expence it takes to take care of the little dog. What I am getting to is all little dogs and animal's have a heart a mind, feelings and so much love to give and when we love them back we get so much more in return and it hurts so bad when we lose them.But remember all the fun and love you had with that animal and how you took care of them, and they are in heaven waiting on you to comejoin them one day. They look down and smile at you every day. I had a horrible house fire two years ago and I lost 9 of my little angels.It was the hardest thing I had to do was go back in the house and pull their little burned bodies out and bury them. I look up at the sky every day and smile because I know they are looking down at me and see that I am still going on and still rescueing their little friends, every star I see is them winking at me. Time will heat and the best way is to go to your local shelter and get you another dog, no it want take the place of the one you lost but it does help fill the void. Everybody needs a dog the give unconditinal love to their owner. Hang in there it does get better. Some people hide their feelings better than others because they want to be tough, As I said go to your local shelter and just walk around and I bet you will find one little dog that does in some way remind you of Liberty. I now have 32 little dogs. I have two sitting on my lap now, yes they are little!!
2007-05-16 15:30:14
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answered by Anonymous
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I can still to this day break into tears thinking about my little kitty and it has been over 3 years. I think that some people just don't have the compassion that others do for animals. It was really hard for me to deal with others that didn't understand because they thought it was no big deal. I had her for 16 years! It was a big deal to me. The worst were the people that scoffed, "It was just a cat".
I hope that time helps you feel better- although I'm finding it still doesn't hurt any less for me.
2007-05-16 11:53:12
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answered by kattykattykat 3
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hi record, Love is love is love. i visit't see that it concerns that the being who's loved has 4 legs and wears fur or 2 legs and wears hair. you've nevertheless sustained an emotional loss and it really is taken into consideration necessary grieve. you'll likely pass by an similar ranges as you should in case you had lost the different member of your spouse and youngsters... denial, bargaining, anger, melancholy, and popularity. per chance no longer in that order or with an similar intensity as if the being lost were a spouse, baby, or... yet nevertheless it really is grief. don't be shocked in case your different pets educate a experience of loss too. it would not count what human beings experience or don't experience about this project. it really is YOUR loss and those are YOUR emotions and your emotions are valid. Cry in case you opt to, cry once you opt to, cry as oftentimes as you opt to. Emotion repressed is infrequently ever an excellent project. My condolences on the shortcoming of your buddy. Tara
2016-11-26 20:39:52
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answered by ? 4
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People react differently to deaths and grief. Im assuming youre younger? Or, havent experienced a lot of pet deaths? When I was younger and my pets died, I cried for days...as I got older, had more pets, and had more pets die on me, even though it was still hard each time, and I still missed them like crazy, I didn't always cry. I knew that they had a good life with me. That didn't mean that I wasnt upset. I was, and I still miss all my pets that passed away. There's nothing wrong with crying over a lost pet, if thats how you need to cope. and theres nothing wrong with being upset, but not crying. We all handle situations differently.
2007-05-08 15:37:33
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answered by Dani 7
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It is always tough some people show differently when there pets pass away i had a Maltese for 11 yrs i took it harder then the rest of my family. I feel some people r tougher just always keep something of your deceased pet to keep in memory of them
2007-05-16 07:14:31
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answered by shorty 1
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Just like people react differently when a person dies. So please don't hold it against them.
Everyone mourns in a different way at a different time. When my dog died - she was very old so we had her for years. My parents were also upset and cried too - but not as much in front of us. One of my parents knew that she was declining and dealt with it along the way and the other was very hurt by it.
2007-05-08 15:33:40
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answered by JustMe 4
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