Ok I'm dating this girl from another state but I also like 2 other girls who live close to where I live. I don't know if either one of these other girls like me but I can't stand to flirt with them knowing that I have a girl friend what should I do break up with my girlfriend and try to find out if either one of the other 2 girls like me or stay with the one I have?
2007-05-08 15:10:44 · 24 answers · asked by tbcab3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THIS is what you should do.
take it from me. she is crazy about you...(the long distance one)
i would know...lol.
but this is what you need to do.
if she really loves you she will let you go if thats what will make you happy.
she wants you to be truely happy no matter what.
even if it makes her cry.
but before you desice tahts what you want...tell her the truth...the whole truth and nothing but the truth....
oh and
ps. she really does love you.
talk to her. aka me.
2007-05-09 12:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Boot-Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up with your girl, then found out the other girls won't go out with you, would you be ok with that? If so, then give it a shot.
You could be with the other girls as a friend. When it is only obvious that one of them really likes you, then break up with your out of state girl.
I appreciate the fact that you feel guilty about flirting when you already have a girl friend. You are a great guy and this is rare. Keep honest and one day you will have a wonderful relationship with the girl of your dreams.
2007-05-08 15:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by youraunty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How often do you see the girl from another state? How long before the two of you will be able to live in the same local area?
If there's no chance of you being with long-dist girl in the forseeable future, then give both of you a break and let that relationship go...you're already seeing how frustrating it can be to see someone you want to get to know, but feel you cannot because you've tied yourself to someone many miles away...
2007-05-08 15:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you really want to loose a what may be a sure thing with the girl you have now, and it would also depend on how long you have had a relationship with her. I wouldn't throw away someone that loved me for a possible or maybe they like me. But on the other hand if your thinking about dumping her for someone else you must not think much of her and she would be better off without you.
2007-05-08 15:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Pal, follow your heart. Go with the one really want. I think you already know the answer to this. So dive in and make the choice! If you really loved the one you had you sure wouldn't be in this situation. Don't stay because she is "there". You aren'y doing either one of you a favor. You know what you want already, so be a man and just make up your mind!
2007-05-08 15:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your just asking for trouble with 2 other girls on the line, i say stick with your gf and forget about the other 2 girls. Afterall, they might not be looking for a serious relationship. Ur best bet is to stay with ur current gf and see how things are, unless u don't have feelings for her, then i say don't waste her time n do not cheat on her, that's the worst thing you could do to her.
2007-05-08 15:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Lovemylifefriendsfamily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love the one you're with :-)
And if you're fortunate enough not to be in love with your girlfriend then ending things for the potential of something new or substantial can't be that bad of an idea...
but then again if you're just a guy who wants to get more action why are you considering anyone's feelings?
2007-05-08 15:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by vertical smiler 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are noticing other girls, it's time to let the girlfriend go. Give being single a try. Don't be in a rush to get married, it's a lot of work and yes, it's worth it when you are ready.
2007-05-08 15:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm thinking that you should break up with her. Even if those two girls don't like you, you are bound to find on who does. I'm guessing if those two girls suddenly move you would find another that you are interested in. Don't waste time with someone that you are eventually not going to end up with.
2007-05-08 15:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well u need to ask urself, do you love ur current girlfriend? and are these other girls really worth it? Do they even like you like that? How often do u get to see ur gf? Find these things out and it will be soooo much easier. Good luck!!!!!â¥
2007-05-08 15:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by Babygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋