Long story short: Girl "A" I have talked to before and she is very nice to me and we both have simular interests. Girl "B" I haven't really talked to but she is in my science group (in school) and she is also very nice but she is like a "unknown" for me. And to make things even better Girl "A" hates Girl "B" and I don't know if Girl "B" hates Girl "A". The choice may be very obvious but then again, I really don't know what to do.
2007-05-08 15:02:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Better the devil you know.
But you know - why don't you just act friendly to both of them and see how it pans out.
When you get to know girl B you might find that you like her better than girl A (or not ... which also makes your choice easier).
If you get to know them both and you like them both equally ... well then you got a dilemma!
But you know - that's the kind of dilemma most guys love to be in!
2007-05-08 15:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ahhh you are in a tough situation my friend. I really cant give you advise in this because i am someone who has had to suffer through situations like that and it is difficult to decide.If the thresome idea dont work out. If i was in your place. Girl A on monday. Girl B on tuesday. But at the end you have to make a decision because it can happen that you can loose both. But try to delay as much as you can on your decision.
Update
On second though after reading brooke answer thats the reason you should not pick girl A if girl A is like that. Brooke why should he predend or break up with his friend B just because GF A does not like her. Thats wrong advise. He is capable of making his own friends and his own decision and he should be the boss of his life not do whatever Girl A wants. He should put himself in the center of attention and this situation shows he is and Girl A is not.
2007-05-08 15:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Best_Answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about Girl "A"? You mentioned she is nice to you but failed to mention if you LIKE her. If you like her, go with the known quantity over the unknown. If she is just "friend material", then you might want to take a chance on girl "B". Just be careful you don't lose a friend.
Just make a decision quick or you will run into a science phenomenon called "chaos theory"; where you get neither girl if they find out you are choosing between them.
2007-05-08 15:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take girl A because you don't even know girl B. If you are trying to choose because you think girl B is better looking, get to know girl B. then you can decide which one you like the most. Not because of looks. try not to be shallow. But it's okay if you end up liking the better looking girl. Don't let Girl A know you are getting to know girl B. Do it secretly because if you end up liking girl A more and she already hates you from getting to know girl B, then that won't work out to great. lol.
Bye=)
2007-05-08 15:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by lill_baby93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl A, and if you end up really liking Girl A, and she talks badly about Girl B, support her. Because I was dating this guy, and I couldn't stand one of his female friends. I would tell him things about her, and he would just stare away, or really not respond, it got me angry, and I think that if you really like Girl A, then you should at least pretend to not like Girl B, or act like you don't care very much for Girl B, or at least listen to Girl A. It may not sound very honest/proper, but if it keeps Girl A happy...Good luck!
2007-05-08 15:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k well first off BIG MISTAKE calling them girl A and B cause if one finds out u did that while ur datin them ALLL HELL WILL BREAK LOOSE but its up to you, i honestly dont think ur in love cause u never love 2 people so whatever do what u want just remember that it may be fun now but it could suck next week :)
2007-05-08 15:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tiojohanna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl A
2007-05-08 15:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by jojo16 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey your young...obviously..and you do not have to choose a or b..just be honest with them both and tell them you want to date around that you are not ready for a relationship now..if they dont understand that then move to .....c...enjoy yuour life while you are young..forever,till death do you part is a long time ,stay free to see what life has to offer you good luck
2007-05-08 15:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by pattialfy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with girl A. And don't get involved in their games.
2007-05-08 15:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
as weird as it may sound...odds are that whoever you choose you are going to wonder "what if?" about if you had chosen the other. and since they know each other....dude, you may be walking into a huge pile of drama....
2007-05-08 15:09:45 · answer #10 · answered by htxrugger 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋