All she ever does is lay around watching TV. How do I get her do start doing things with me?
2007-05-08 15:00:07 · 42 answers · asked by guyitsover14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she is bored with you!! Maybe she finds the TV more interesting than you!! Try relating to her on her level, talk to her about her intrest!!
2007-05-08 15:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by stangsearchin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One thing to get your girl to start doing things with you. Try taking her out to like a movie, bowling a walk in the park, out to eat. Just always try to do things that are only involved outside of the house not inside. You wanna try avoiding the house for a little bit. try being a little more romantic. Also, tell her that you's both need to have a talk about your relationship and how you wanna be more outgoing ya know. There's more better things to do then to stay and watch tv.
2007-05-09 05:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by Daizy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just can't change people. You had better find someone who shares most of your interests. She loves TV. There is nothing wrong with that but she just may not be for you. Sorry, but it won't get better. Well, it may if she has a type of job that wipes her out. She may lack energy due to this. If this is the case maybe you can help her find a less stressful way of life. If this isn't the case, then, either begin to love TV or communicate about why she loves certain things so much. I hope this helps!
2007-05-08 15:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that's funny because it just could be she is thinking the same thing about you,you like to go out she likes to watch movies.Why is it that what she is doing is boring .What you want to do might be boring to her.You two need to sit down and talk about this,remember she can't read your mind just like you can't read her mind so before you go out and find someone else to have fun with talk to her.Maybe one week you pick the things the two of you can do together then the next week it's her turn to choose so if she picks sitting on the couch watching movies then that is what you will have to do for her.
2007-05-08 15:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE her do stuff with you. But you can ask her. Find a balance. Maybe if you watch a couple of shows with her, she'll play a couple of games of basketball with you. Why don't you go for a picnic together or to an amusement park the arcade.
After she misses the shows she likes the first couple of times, it'll get easier for her to tear herself away from the TV.
2007-05-08 15:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by blueJay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and let her know how you feel for one but you don't need to be to straight forward about it just let her know that it would be nice if you could take her out so that you can see her happy and spend time with her, something like that ya know.
Just start out with little things like going for short walks even just to the store, go to a movie because maybe she is uncomfortable around a lot of people so just try to get her out into little outings for now and work your way into the big things but don't forget to tell her how important it is to you to take her out and have that time with her.
Good luck.
2007-05-08 15:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try taking turns with what both of you like to do! If she likes watching tv then watch something with her then you both do something you like to do. Ask her if she wants to go bowling or whatever are some cool places to hang out in your area. It can only be as boring as you make it be. Board games are fun (cheesy yes) but lots of fun! Play Battleship or something! Hope I helped! Good Luck!
2007-05-08 15:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by Lilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLAN somthing!!
don't ask her what she wants to do, cuz she'll say nothing
plan a night out, get concert ticket, buy movie ticket, plan a picnic or a dinner
plan it make resverations and tell her you have them or tickets or somthing and she can't refuse, if she doesn't like going out then she'll tell you...but chances are she'll find out its fun to go out and watch less tv
but a warning....people who never have anything to do aren't very creative or interesting people...you might not be able to salvage the bore
2007-05-08 15:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of asking her to do things you want to do, try doing something she wants to do. Start easy.... staying with the TV theme, find out her favorite movie and watch it with her.
2007-05-08 15:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by Zeltar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start suggesting you do things and invite her out with you and your friends or on a one-on-one. Some people need to be brought out of their shell. If she's not comfortable with you yet, that may be why she does that. She's waiting for you to warm up to her.
or she's just damn boring and you should dump her.
2007-05-08 15:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋