He wants to move to North Carolina w/ his mom.
He told me he doesn't know if he will this year or next year
and he also told me he might stay one more year just to go out with me.
And I'm scared...I don't wanna lose him.But I understand he loves his mom and I'm sure he misses her(he lives with his dad)
Do you think if he stays one more year that he won't want to leave because of me?
Idk,i'm just so scared& i want to cry I don't know what to do.
I dont want to make him stay because I know he misses his mom. IDK?
Help..
2007-05-08 14:43:39 · 24 answers · asked by toots 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you'll have 1000 more boyfriends before you finally find mr. right, so dont sweat him...
2007-05-08 14:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by The-Magic-8-Ball 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not knowing your ages, it is fairly difficult to ascertain if he will stay for good or will move to North Carolina eventually. What I can tell you is to make the most of your time together, whether it be just this year or next year too. Be happy with have right now and fill your days (and nights) with happy, sweet moments. Don't waste your time crying or worrying about the "unknowns." Just cross your bridge when you get there. Be happy and stay happy.
2007-05-08 14:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to laugh because when I was 18 I went through the same exact thing. He stayed a short while, then I finally gave in and moved to NC. Well, I am still here and now I am with someone else that is the man I really wanted. I would not have met him if I did not go to NC. So, you are going to have to go with your heart, Hon. Just go with your heart.
2007-05-08 14:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a decision for him to make. You can not decide for him. If he stays because you forced him he could end up resenting you. This is going to be hard for you to stay out of but you have to not give any in put. Just let him decide and support him which ever way he wants to go.
2007-05-08 14:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by nikkij 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY CHERISH WHILE YOU STILL HAVE ENJOY EVERY DAY AS IF IT WERE THE LAST AND IF HE DOES LEAVE THEN YOU CAN ATLEAST SAY YOU GAVE IT YOUR ALL. AND ITS LIKE THEY SAY DONT HOLD THE SAND TO TIGHT BECAUSE THEN IT WILL ALL FALL OUT AND DONT LET IT TOO LOOSE BECAUSE THEN IT WILL FALLL OUT ALSO BUT IF YOU JUST HOLD WELL ENOUGH IT WILL STAY RIGHT WHERE YOU WANT IT. AND BESIDE THAT IF YOU LET HIM GO BACK WITH HIS MOM AND IF HE COMES BACK LOOKIN FOR YOU, YOU KNOW IT WAS MEANT TO BE GIVE IT SOME TIME AND JUST ENJOY HIS COMPANY WHILE HE IS HERE WITH YOU. AND IT SOUNDS LIKE HE REALLY LOVES YOU SO DONT WORRY SO MUCH ABOUT IT AND ENJOY HIM. GOOD LUCK!! ^-^
2007-05-08 14:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by **jUiCy** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm in your case i would try to make the last few months you two have the must special and precious memories you two have ever shared sence you meet. This way you could have a chance of making him change his mind about leaving but if not you have some good memories of you and him together to hold on to
2007-05-08 14:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Someguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the guy now, cry and sulk for a few days and than move on and you are 1 year ahead to get the next guy.
As you prolong and think from every other angle you are going to increase your pain and hoping and hanging and it will break soon.....move on.
2007-05-08 14:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by Freakout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excellent background information.
Sorry, but the best advice would probably be no advice. You might be saying "What? Prick!" right now, but honestly...unless everyone who read this understood everything going on in your live (EVERYTHING) then they wouldnt be able to supply a good answer. Consequences of your actions vs. rewards, only you can really measure that one out.
But, ignoring all this I would simply say "LOL....no."
2007-05-08 14:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Trawl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he stays one more year then maybe he will just want to go and visit his mom. but like if he moves he just might come back to see you for a little bit
2007-05-08 14:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to move with his mother he should. It sounds like you really like this guy, but if he stays one year more you might just be more attached to him when he does decide to move. ULtimately I think the choice is really up to him.
2007-05-08 14:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves u he is eventually goin to leave his family anyway
giv ur relationship time - he might move anyway but its better that u two try instead of giving up before u can seee if u guys are right for each other
2007-05-08 14:47:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋