Hi, I am a twenty year old male. I go to college. I own my own car and have a great job, and I'm also deppressed. To me it seems like all the girls that want to be with me , have been around the block many times with many diifrent guys. So i Want to try something diffrent and go for a diffrent type of girl, some one new who dose not know me. I found this really pretty girl at wal-mart that i would like to ask out. Whenevere i try i seem to have coffidence issues and chicken out, i know i am worthy enough for her but don't have the balls just to ask out. Why, and dose anyone have any genral tips to work up the gull to ask her out.
2007-05-08 14:16:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, heres a tip,
don't do a whole conversation the first time you meet, make her laugh, keep her happy, get her EMAIL or NUMBER then call her on a date.
Remember, you'll be havng to go up to her, so make sure you got a good pick up. And, confidence, don't fiddle too much.
2007-05-08 14:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy likes different things. That's jus the reality. I'm not a guy (obviously) but out of all the guys I've dated, they basically want the same things: *Someone they can be comfortable with: If you have chemistry, you have chemistry... don't force it by trying to be something you are not. * Someone that can make them laugh: Don't be a *****. Generally, that's a turn off... *Somene that's comfortable with their friends: Once again no bitchiness... they want someone that gets along with their friends. * Someone that smiles: Dont sulk or look like u want to kill someone all the time. Smile! :) smiling makes ppl comfortable with you, and shows tht ur not gonna explode if they say something to you. but dont smile all the time, cause thats creepy lol :P *Good hygiene and self confidence: don't smell bad, take an occasional shower (lol) wash your hair, brush your teeth... be clean, and take pride in your appearance (that doesn't mean spending a day in the bathroom or clogging on make up) like, making sure u come to school with ur hair combed and bla bla bla... *The most important thing of all: (Drum roll please :P) Guys want someone he's attracted to so if he doesn't like you, he doesn't... its not the end of the world, it jus won't work out in a relationship if he doesn't find you attractive... try to be friends and if it isn't going anywhere, back off lol i'm sure u dont find the entire student body attractive, so its not a crime if he doesn't. * jus try to be pleasant and friendly, witty, funny, and clean. lol guys also like girls who arent toohigh maintainance... (like the ones who expect a 20 karat ring on their b-day) ... Good luck! :)
2016-05-18 21:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you jsut wanna ask out a girl from wal-mart? do you even know her at all. yea that is sweet and all but still. do you have netlog?
well its a GREAT site to try and get ppl. I EVEN HAVE IT :'( lol but you can get to know girls on there post a shout saying i NEED to talk to girls! but not girls who've been around the block a few times
2007-05-08 14:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can chose to live the rest of your life knowing you are a coward...or face the fear and just ask...what's the worst thing she can say...yes?
At least if she says no, that's one less woman in the world that you have to ask out. Besides, it's just a date, you aren't marrying her, raising kids and getting a mortgage.
It took three tries asking before my wife agreed to our first date.
2007-05-08 14:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by Just a Suggestion 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MAKE SURE FEELING ARE MUTUAL AND STOP GOIN FOR THE SAME KINDA GIRLS LIKE JUST SWING AROUND THE BLOCK. IF YOU LIKE HER JUST CHOOSE A WAY YOUR BEST COMFORTABLE WITH SHOWING HER LIKE IN A LETTER OR FLOWERS OR SOMETHING JUST CUTE. TAKE YOUR TIME DONT PRESSURE YOURSELF. AND HAVE FUN WITH IT. DONT STRESS BECAUSE ITS DOESNT COME OUT THE WAY YOU LIKE IT. AND IF SHE LIKES YOU THEN IT WOULDNT MATTER SO DONT TRIP AND JUST GO WITH THE FLOW. AND DONT THINK ABOUT IT SOOOO MUCH. HAVING MA FINGERS CROSSED FOR YOU!! ^-^
2007-05-08 14:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by **jUiCy** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start a conversation, ask her about a place she would want 2 go to, and suggest going there together.
2007-05-08 14:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by sarahbara_sarahali 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok if u seem that she will like u or is even interested in u, then ask her out. dont chicken out, just ask her! or ull regret it. so dont regret and just go for it; she might actually like u.
2007-05-08 14:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by *.:Chasity:.* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, ask her if she has a boyfriend if she said no, ask her out u don't have nothing to lose.
2007-05-08 14:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm well I suggest that you get the nerve... to ask her out.... Good luck.
2007-05-08 14:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by Snowflakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont work it up you will either do it or you wont nothing we are going to say is going to help you do it
2007-05-08 14:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋