My ex is dating a girl who is very trashy and is very open about sexuallity making stupid jokes, shes an airhead, freak in the streets, instead of a lady in the street.. but she's rich and pretty good looking... what does he really think of her? i dont think he takes her seriously .. shes very easy and stupid when it comes to him
2007-05-08 13:02:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS hes not officially dating her.. theyre not boyfriend and girlfriend
2007-05-08 13:04:13 · update #1
he has money too so whatever.. i mean shes rich as in she can do her hair at the salon and whatever
2007-05-08 13:08:30 · update #2
He likes me better I just can't be with him for personal reasons.. thanks
2007-05-08 13:13:58 · update #3
He says im for marrying and she is more for dating or something
2007-05-08 13:20:44 · update #4
money affects men as well as it does women. men have been known to do a lot of stuff they normally wouldn't do when money is involved, and he may just be along for the ride because she'll take him out and buy him stuff and show him a nice time. you can't really hate a guy for that, of course the untold story is that on some level the girl is trying to buy affection, probably knows and realizes that she is being used but is in denial of it and will continue in spite of it until he breaks it off with her. that said her behavior is most likely part of that package, and she may feel that she has to be "friendly" for lack of a better term, to have something to converse with this guy about, and to be the center of attention. this works for a lot of girls, but there is that fine line you have to draw where you're not totally sure if she is really working with something or if this isn't some type of illusion. whether or not he really respects her isn't truly the point, honestly, he probably does not - i mean to an extent you can, and you can put your best foot forward but it's a matter of time before you're looking at someone and it's like "why am i even bothering with this". if he makes her that uncomfortable and he can bring her out into her own like that and that's what it takes them let the two of them enjoy it for what it's worth. those type of relationshps rarely make it past september.
you also have to understand, if he's trying to get over you he'll find a sure thing that's easy just to get stuff out of his system. this is his time to try out stuff he wasn't comfortable with where you were concerned. most of us do that i sure as h* did, it didn't last and i can't even remember what it was like, which is a bit sad to think back on it. i wouldn't worry about it so much.
2007-05-08 13:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously thought she was better than you. You seem kinda passive/aggressive and petty.
Sounds to me like you're jealous, or maybe you still have something going with the guy. ("She's....and stupid when it comes to him"). In which case you would be the nasty, trashy one.
2007-05-08 13:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by jade j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go out with her... Shes rich, she pretty.. What else do you need?
2007-05-08 13:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by FancyShoes 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes its not about how she acts but her personality and character and honestly you must respect everyone if you want respect back
2007-05-08 13:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably doesn't take her seriously, but she is rich and he wants money
2007-05-08 13:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well... if she's really confident and likes herself, i guess he can like her. it could be a temporary thing, though, and he's just having fun or something.
2007-05-08 13:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋