would a female consider someone that is 31 yrs old and not night person and cant enough money to live on own?

Answer 1

I think people place more importance on money and stuff rather than people.

I find it ironic that a lot of women almost expect a man to support them and that everyone is fine with that. The minute a man is down, he's virtually dropped right then and there and made to feel he has no value or worth to the opposite sex.

People whether man or woman, have way more worth beyond how much they make or how much they can spend.

I think when someone truly loves someone, they do what they can for each other to help. Obviously being used, is a different story. In my experience I can say from observation that generally men are way more used then women. There seems to be acceptance for it.

Throughout my life, I purposely avoided the females that expected to be taken care of financially. I think there's a very unhealthy psychology behind that which in these times stretches far beyond tradition when woman have affirmed their presence in the workforce.

So I say, you may be 31, you may not be very social at night and you may be broke. True love is going to see through that.

The best thing someone can give is their love.

For those females that will ridicule you, just be aware that in reality the joke is on them. For they don't know how to fully give of themselves.

Answer 2

As a 32 single, self-supporting female, I would have to say it depends what his situation is, but honestly, it raises a lot of red flag warnings.

Answer 3

no... im a 31 female and you already sound like an anchor designed to sink ships no matter how old they are.

Answer 4

Yep sorry to say now a days if you can't afford to pay bills and take women out and spend money on them they won't want you.