I was their for him you know, I cooked ,clean ,did his laundary and everything when he came home from his classes I was their to give him his massage and make sure that he had enough to eat so he could sleep good you know I mean me and him a lot of sex NEVER told him No cause you know Im a low key sex freek but anyways I was not working at the time but if I had money and he needed it best belive that it was in his pocket then he whent to jail and I whent to visit him every time put money on his books and wrote to him everyday then you know when he got out he left back to his ex
WHAT DA ****
2007-05-08 11:36:43 · 23 answers · asked by helllllllooooooo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you did everything right.....except choose the right man, keep it up and mr.right will come around i wouldnt marry a woman that did any less for me and i'd take care of her for life
2007-05-08 11:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you where a good girl no lie but for real you where too good to him so good he took u for granted and u got played you where acting like a wife and not a girl friend there is a difference and and you gotta know the role
on a side bar if you two where living together .. just my opinion but that's a no no he should be going home or at least have a home of his own and all that IE you be a whole person find a whole person and u will find happiness
2007-05-08 11:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by wise_son_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you really did everthing for him. He sounds pretty selfish. What have you been doing for yourself? Maybe next time you could be telling your potential boyfriend about what you are doing to improve or maintain your life and see if he wants to help. If he does then you could be helping eachother, working together if he doesn't you have to decide if you want another relationship of all give and no receiving.
If you want one of all giveing and no receiving please realize that this is probably because of some doubts about yourself and seek some help from some counsellor for this issue otherwise you may end up being a very unhappy slave to guys. Best Wishes
2007-05-08 11:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by drpetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but he may have gotten bored with you or has taken you for granted. You made it easy for him, YOU DID EVERYTHING HE WANTED. You guys didn't have a relationship, he had a maid. You don't need him, find a better man and try not to push your wants and feelings to the side for a guy. Don't make yourself so available.
2007-05-08 11:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im not a fella, but it seems to me that you were TOO good to him... maybe he thinks that if he gets tired of her, then he'll drop her and go running back to you because im sure he thinks with the way you guys were that you'll still be at his beckin call... So get over him, and wait for him to come crying back to you... and drop him like he dropped you!! except he'll fall harder!! Good luck!
2007-05-08 11:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by ••Bubbles•• 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, I'm just about willing to send you a plane ticket to come down here with me in Florida. Kick my old lady to the curb and have a NEWWWWW girl friend. :)
2007-05-08 11:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its his loss.. you can find someone more deserving of you that doesnt want to use and abuse you. just keep your head held high..and soon enough that guy will come. sorry that happened to you sweetie! i wish you the best of luck and i hope things start going better for you!
2007-05-08 11:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wanted a girl who could spell?
2007-05-08 11:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by Donny Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were a very good gf, but it seems like he was only using you because you were so good to him - always be carefull with money though
2007-05-08 11:43:53 · answer #9 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow
I don't know what to say except that it's his loss
Don't worry, he wasn't worth it if he broke up with you
2007-05-08 11:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋