would guys think it would be okay if a girl came up to them and said hi would they think she was easy if she did this?
2007-05-08 11:31:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she said hi? maybe if she was naked?
otherwise no, they would think your normal. how do you expect to get a guy if you dont even say hi?
2007-05-08 11:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by wholattamulatto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy, would not consider that to be anything out of the ordinary. At least not the guys I know. From what I have found most guys usually prefer to find out who is interested in them. The only way you could be considered to be easy is if you sleep with them on the first night. Now this is the time when most guys will be trying to linch me, but the truth is the truth. Just saying hi could be considered a light form of flirting. There is nothing wrong with it. I hope something I said was helpful.
2007-05-08 18:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by lurch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is fine for anyone to walk up and say hi to anyone else, that is just a formal greeting. Most guys don't mind at all, actually there are a lot of guys who have problems doing that very thing. So take the lead if there is someone you want to talk to and get to know.
Now as far as thinking she is easy, it is your actions after you say hi that determines that. But watch the guys actions if they start saying suggestive things or acting like they want to get cozy with you then that guy may have the wrong idea.
2007-05-08 18:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You olny would be considered easy for saying hi if she was like in her underwear or sumthin. There is nothing wrong with walking up to a guy and saying hi..u have to do a whole lot more before anyone would think "Whoa that girl must be easy"...I bet u were expecting just guys to answer this lol...hope it helped and go for it!
2007-05-08 18:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by little miss sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said "hi"? No - as long as she didn't dress slutty or give me the sly half-smile - and even then, that would be cool with me but maybe not some others.
Listen, your job is to smile, to touch our arm, to bump into us and then start a conversation, "Oh, sorry. Hey listen - what do you think of my perfume? It's okay, good. Do you like this place?" And if he keeps talking he's interested. Your job is to let us know you're receptive - if we're interested we'll act, if we're not, you can walk away without officially being rejected as you never actually asked us out.
2007-05-08 18:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
Young guys assume that if you are talking to him, then you must think that he is cute (otherwise you would be talking to someone else instead). He might even be hoping that you are going to sleep with him. But easy? I think that it depends on the guy. Do you assume that a GUY is easy if he comes over and talks to you? Probably not.
2007-05-08 18:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no a guy would not think you were easy just by going up and saying hi, after all we can break the ice for them to
2007-05-08 18:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will do you the honor of being honest ....
i'm painting with a VERY broad brush , mind you....
in general, men are socialized to look at interpersonal relationships
in a vertical hierarchy...women tend to see things as a horizontal network. That being said , a woman who takes charge of her own life/takes the initiative (acts like a "man"), can take many men off guard....personally , nothing pleases me more than seeing a self-absorbed 'hot' guy turn to a babbling idiot in the presence of a self aware woman.
it's also HOW you do it...i remember a cute little -pint-o-peanuts
comming up to me in a club,,,she took a drag off her cig , blew it in my face, and in this Fran "the Nanny" voice says , " ooooow, soYaWannaGetTogethaaaaaa?"
i took a second... looked at her and very calmly said "that's how you're gonna ask me? i usually get dinner and a movie first."
she was rather deflated , and looking back , i regret doing it....
but it was the moment.......
hope it helps. play nice.
2007-05-08 18:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by misterchickie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, are you kidding? Maybe if she came up and started stripping, then she might be considered easy, but just saying hello? That would be a very nice gesture, and guys would love that.
More girls need to come up and just say hello.
2007-05-08 18:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if she says hi shes being friendly not easy but if she came up to someone and like made out with them then yea that would be like she was easy but sayin hi no
2007-05-08 18:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shows Confidence not an easy lay!
2007-05-08 18:38:12 · answer #11 · answered by Triple X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋