What should I do when I have a bf but I really like this guy I've liked for 5 months now?!!!?

Question

I've been dating this one guy for 2 weeks now, he's great and all, and I like him but then I don't. All I think about is this guy that I have liked since Christmas, we almost dated but something happened I'm not exactly sure what happened that caused us not to. We still talk and I still like him, and I think that he still likes me, I'm just not sure, I've thought about talking to him and finding out why we didn't date and ask him if he still likes me. The only thing is he has a girlfriend, but they don't act like a couple, and whenever we pass each other in the hall he grabs my arm or pokes me right in front of her, he'll flirt with me ... she hates me(shes a prep and I'm not, different cliques). I think he still likes me by the way he acts, it's hard to explain, he's the type that doesn't mess around/flirt with anyone when he has a girlfriend, but he flirts with me. Should I talk to him 'cause I really like him or should I not since he has a gf and I have a bf? What is some advice?!!

Answer 1

Grow-up kid? Really, neither one of these are a geniune relationship nor could you ever hope to make one because your really lacking enough self-confidence to handle your life on lifes terms. I mean look at this as an example, you've got a guy that most feel something for you, but instead of being strait with him, your stringing him along. On top of that your mentially cheating on him with your time so frist off dump him. Second get some gull and ask this other guy yourself. But understand that chances are he is doing what us guys call fishing. He digs your style and whats a taste! Now weather or not thats going to get you that run away romance or even fix your insecurities is outside the scoop of my understanding of you two, but I wouldn't get so caught up in the love game in highschool. Just get comfrontable being able to talk to people about your feelings and getting them to talk about theres. If not heres your can'd MTV answer, "Go get on that girl"! O yea I know these things because I've been there, but was smart to understand that in highschool I better just be happy to get laid better yet find the person I'm going to spend my life with, shoot if I had seen her I would of hide behind the frist lady that would of laid me.... we all deal with insecurities..... all of us.... try and use that to your advantage and talk to him.....